I'll repeat it -- paraphrased
I know plenty about geothermal and solar tiles, more than most.
Why because I'm a HOME OWNER (not a contractor) who has both installed.
I'm also a member of Renewable Energy Long Island (a non profit) and help people get these types of system installed. I do not make a penny from this (that is helping others / providing advice). The only thing I "make money" from is not having to pay for electric or heating my home, and I'd like to spread the word.
Look here and you'll see the solar tiles being installed:
netzeroenergy.org
The tiles are by openenergycorp.com it was installed by people at sunrise-energy.com
The solar install went great I couldn't be happier with it.
The geothermal is a longer story, geothermal is even better for new construction (mine was retrofit - which is harder).
Between the solar power and the geothermal heating/cooling I have zero electric bill, and no gas or oil either.
Sorry if offering advice help or contact details appears like a solicitation. What else is a forum for?
So my contact details are available via netzeroenergy.org
or email mark at net zero energy .org
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First concentrate on good house design.
That means...
a) Do not build larger than your needs. At 4500 sq ft I guess that you have a large family. Building the right size (just big enough and no bigger) is the single largest energy saver! If you have several children, then how long will it be until they start leaving?
b) Air sealing and insulation is the next biggest energy saving. I like Icynene for new construction (I have a little in my retrofit). I was at an energy saving conference today and happened to meet the local Icynene rep and got his business card. This product air seals and insulates.
c) Read
www.buildingscience.com
You will find that thermal bridging is another major energy leak. The walls should be 24" on center staggered studs. The inner studs are offset 12" from the outer studs.
Icycene is probably too expensive to fill a wall with, but spraying a layer before insulating with recycled denim bats would be a good system.
d) Windows --
www.Alpeneg.com
Forget about Anderson and Pella these are absolutely the best. AlpenEG are so far ahead of Anderson and Pella and any others out there it is like comparing chalk and cheese. I used AlpenEG (mention my name if you speak to Dave or Robert there, I was a difficult customer and it would be nice for them to know it was worth it). By best I mean the insulation value is about twice as good as the best Anderson or Pellas. Not only did I research this, I measured it after they were installed (I'm an engineer). Everyone will tell you their windows are the best. Believe me I seriously researched this
www.AlpenEg.com is the place to go for the best in terms of energy saving.
e) design.
Read about passive house (and look up the german spelling too -
Passivhaus).
You want large south facing glassed areas with large overhangs (like a cap keeps the sun out of your eyes in summer). When the sun is low in winter you get free solar heating through your windows.
Maybe a green architect?
d) roof
Make the roof larger on the south side so there is plenty of room for solar. To do this you can make the south side shallower and larger area and the north side steeper and smaller area.