Where are the Single 35-45 men in NY ? (New York, Malone: home, transfer)

[imperialegg]

I moved away from NY to Atlanta GA 11 years ago and now find myself 36 and STILL single. I cannot relate to the people here as well as I can to the upfront NY state types, and I am missing NY personalities and thinking about moving back. Does anyone know where I am going to find high concentrations of 35-45 single, no kids, marriage minded college degreed men in NY State ?

[Check123]

I'm 40, single, two degrees, no kids, up front... not marriage minded. Why ruin a good thing.

My guess is to look in NYC where there is a high concentration of people.

Originally Posted by imperialegg

I moved away from NY to Atlanta GA 11 years ago and now find myself 36 and STILL single. I cannot relate to the people here as well as I can to the upfront NY state types, and I am missing NY personalities and thinking about moving back. Does anyone know where I am going to find high concentrations of 35-45 single, no kids, marriage minded college degreed men in NY State ?

[GypsySoul22]

Not on Long Island..unless you go to bars and clubs. I think finding single men that age without kids (and not gay..no offense) is quite hard in the suburbs. I agree, maybe in NYC you'd be luckier.

[teachcal]

Now, this is not what you expected to hear, but move to Birmingham.

This is where I met my husband (I'm from the Midwest). I lived in Atlanta for 2 years and found it full of women and the men were just players for the most part 'cause they could.

I found in Bham that most of the women by age 30 were all married, or divorced with kids. Single-never married women over 30 were very rare. What happens there is single men over 30 are mostly transferred professionals or work for UAB, usually at the hospital as docs or specialists.

I am now a stay at home mom and hubby makes a 6-figure income. We currently live in Missouri. I met him in Bham when I was in my early 30s.

If you want to email me, I'm at teachcal@tranquility.net. Coincidentally, I'm 1/2 way through writing a book about the same topic (Areas of the US with a surplus of single guys.)

Tracy

[Dedalus]

Originally Posted by Dee62

Darling..............Come off it!! Deary At this stage of the game if you have not found somebody yet......... then you probably always will be...........unless you want alternative life styles..... Metro Sexual..... Meth takers...........

OhMan...how downbeat can you get?

Though I'm about the last dude in the world who's ever consider getting a facial or something, "metrosexuals" are not necessarily weirdos. And, meth takers? They're usually more interested in watching dirty movies on DVD than humans. Hence, they never go out and you never see them.

[jensen beach gal]

teachcal I know exactly where imperialegg is coming from! I'd love to read your book when its finished! Can I email you? Are you talking about Birmingham Alabama?? Don't know of a Birmingham NY. Oh and Dee62-come on now-i can't belive that!

[NYTom]

According to City Data:

Top 100 Cities with the Largest Percentage of Males (pop. 2000+)

Baldwin, Illinois (94%, Median age: 30.7, pop. 3627)
Irving, Illinois (90%, Median age: 31.9, pop. 2484)
Ina, Illinois (90%, Median age: 33.8, pop. 2455)
Altamont, Pennsylvania (87%, Median age: 33.9, pop. 2689)
Carlisle, Indiana (86%, Median age: 33.6, pop. 2660)
Clifton, Tennessee (85%, Median age: 34.7, pop. 2699)
Dannemora, New York (84%, Median age: 34.0, pop. 4129)
Jessup, Maryland (83%, Median age: 34.3, pop. 7865)
Fort Dix, New Jersey (83%, Median age: 33.5, pop. 7464)
Sheridan, Illinois (83%, Median age: 30.6, pop. 2411)
Florence, Arizona (83%, Median age: 35.4, pop. 17054)
Groveland, New York (80%, Median age: 35.9, pop. 3853)
Twentynine Palms Base, California (80%, Median age: 21.1, pop. 8413)
Malone, Florida (80%, Median age: 37.2, pop. 2007)
Whiteville, Tennessee (79%, Median age: 32.4, pop. 3148)
Ione, California (79%, Median age: 34.3, pop. 7129)
Naval Academy, Maryland (79%, Median age: 20.9, pop. 4264)
Dannemora, New York (79%, Median age: 34.8, pop. 5149)
Calipatria, California (78%, Median age: 32.6, pop. 7289)
Buckner, Kentucky (78%, Median age: 36.5, pop. 4000)
Fox Lake, Wisconsin (77%, Median age: 36.1, pop. 2402)
Packwaukee, Wisconsin (75%, Median age: 38.7, pop. 2574)
Parris Island, South Carolina (75%, Median age: 20.2, pop. 4841)
Abbeville, Georgia (75%, Median age: 35.8, pop. 2298)
Milan, New York (75%, Median age: 36.6, pop. 4559)
Clio, Alabama (75%, Median age: 35.2, pop. 2206)
Avenal, California (74%, Median age: 31.0, pop. 14674)
Ridgeland, South Carolina (74%, Median age: 32.7, pop. 2518)
Collins, New York (73%, Median age: 36.1, pop. 8307)
Greenbush, Wisconsin (73%, Median age: 32.6, pop. 2773)
Fairton, New Jersey (73%, Median age: 36.4, pop. 2253)
Lovejoy, Georgia (73%, Median age: 30.3, pop. 2495)
West Liberty, Kentucky (73%, Median age: 36.1, pop. 3277)
Airway Heights, Washington (72%, Median age: 33.8, pop. 4500)
Eden, Texas (72%, Median age: 34.0, pop. 2561)
Bayport, Minnesota (72%, Median age: 35.0, pop. 3162)
Lackland AFB, Texas (72%, Median age: 20.3, pop. 7123)
Fort Ann, New York (72%, Median age: 33.1, pop. 6417)
West Livingston, Texas (71%, Median age: 34.1, pop. 6612)
Marcy, New York (71%, Median age: 35.6, pop. 9469)
Appleton, Minnesota (71%, Median age: 38.8, pop. 2871)
Collegeville, Pennsylvania (71%, Median age: 34.8, pop. 8032)
Swift Trail Junction, Arizona (70%, Median age: 34.9, pop. 2195)
Helena, Georgia (70%, Median age: 32.8, pop. 2307)
Kings Bay Base, Georgia (70%, Median age: 21.6, pop. 2599)
Camp Pendleton North, California (69%, Median age: 21.4, pop. 8197)
Jackson, Louisiana (69%, Median age: 35.8, pop. 4130)
Tehachapi, California (69%, Median age: 33.2, pop. 10957)
Fort Bragg, North Carolina (68%, Median age: 22.0, pop. 29183)
Cape Vincent, New York (68%, Median age: 37.5, pop. 3345)
Ault Field, Washington (68%, Median age: 22.1, pop. 2064)
Ionia, Michigan (68%, Median age: 26.5, pop. 10569)
Anthony, Texas (68%, Median age: 32.5, pop. 3850)
Brockway, Wisconsin (68%, Median age: 30.9, pop. 2580)
Attica, New York (68%, Median age: 34.7, pop. 6028)
Corcoran, California (68%, Median age: 30.7, pop. 14458)
West Point, New York (67%, Median age: 21.1, pop. 7138)
Moravia, New York (67%, Median age: 35.5, pop. 4040)
Kaneohe Station, Hawaii (67%, Median age: 22.0, pop. 11827)
Unadilla, Georgia (67%, Median age: 35.7, pop. 2772)
Warren AFB, Wyoming (67%, Median age: 25.1, pop. 4440)
Susanville, California (66%, Median age: 32.1, pop. 13541)
Bangor Trident Base, Washington (66%, Median age: 24.8, pop. 7253)
Gunnison, Utah (66%, Median age: 32.1, pop. 2394)
Moose Lake, Minnesota (66%, Median age: 36.7, pop. 2239)
Sayre, Oklahoma (66%, Median age: 34.6, pop. 4114)
Fort Stewart, Georgia (66%, Median age: 21.7, pop. 11205)
Edgefield, South Carolina (66%, Median age: 35.8, pop. 4449)
Fort Carson, Colorado (66%, Median age: 22.1, pop. 10566)
Unalaska, Alaska (66%, Median age: 36.5, pop. 4283)
Fort Riley North, Kansas (66%, Median age: 21.8, pop. 8114)
Fort Benning South, Georgia (66%, Median age: 22.5, pop. 11737)
Air Force Academy, Colorado (66%, Median age: 20.9, pop. 7526)
Pinckneyville, Illinois (65%, Median age: 35.0, pop. 5464)
Tipton, Missouri (65%, Median age: 37.0, pop. 3261)
Fort Drum, New York (65%, Median age: 22.5, pop. 12123)
Mount Hope, New York (65%, Median age: 36.3, pop. 6639)
Coxsackie, New York (65%, Median age: 30.1, pop. 8884)
Camp Swift, Texas (65%, Median age: 34.1, pop. 4731)
Wasco, California (65%, Median age: 29.3, pop. 21263)
Eddyville, Kentucky (65%, Median age: 37.8, pop. 2350)
French Camp, California (65%, Median age: 30.3, pop. 4109)
Newberry, Michigan (64%, Median age: 33.9, pop. 2686)
Mountain Home AFB, Idaho (64%, Median age: 25.4, pop. 8894)
Fairfax, South Carolina (64%, Median age: 34.9, pop. 3206)
Sturtevant, Wisconsin (64%, Median age: 33.5, pop. 5287)
Malone, New York (64%, Median age: 35.7, pop. 14981)
Hinton, Oklahoma (64%, Median age: 34.8, pop. 2175)
Eagleville, Pennsylvania (63%, Median age: 35.3, pop. 4458)
Bonifay, Florida (63%, Median age: 35.3, pop. 4078)
South Bay, Florida (63%, Median age: 32.2, pop. 3859)
Cameron, Missouri (63%, Median age: 36.6, pop. 8312)
Watonga, Oklahoma (63%, Median age: 34.0, pop. 4658)
Perry, New York (63%, Median age: 35.3, pop. 6654)
Fort Lewis, Washington (63%, Median age: 22.4, pop. 19089)
Fort Bliss, Texas (63%, Median age: 22.0, pop. 8264)
Teague, Texas (62%, Median age: 31.1, pop. 4557)
Milledgeville, Georgia (62%, Median age: 33.0, pop. 18757)
South Highpoint, Florida (62%, Median age: 32.3, pop. 8839)
Lansing, Kansas (62%, Median age: 36.2, pop. 9199)

[mead]

Aren't those all just military towns?

[Anigirli]

Yeppers! Dont they say Alaska has a large male population? Also socialogist say there are more women than men being born.

[teachcal]

NY Tom,

This is a state prison listing (for the most part). Come on, get real.
No one is that desperate.

Tracy