I despise envious people (sister)

[fergie 2]

I haven't spoken to my sister in months, and I hope it's not for months to come. She has always been envious of me for holding more mental weight than her, and enough is enough! The line is drawn here, this far, no further!!

I want all of our family to say "look, fergie is smarter than you!! get over it!! learn life eventualities and coping skills!!"

I will get flamed, but I don't care. healthy people have emotional management, and part of that is emotional expression.

[lovesMountains]

Originally Posted by fergie 2

I haven't spoken to my sister in months, and I hope it's not for months to come. She has always been envious of me for holding more mental weight than her, and enough is enough! The line is drawn here, this far, no further!!

I want all of our family to say "look, fergie is smarter than you!! get over it!! learn life eventualities and coping skills!!"

I will get flamed, but I don't care. healthy people have emotional management, and part of that is emotional expression.

That's really sad.

While your sister is busy envying you, why not just take the high road and pity her?

[fergie 2]

I don't want to. She is a bully and frankly has shown NO empathy to me, merely for being smarter and more mentally aware than she is. Frankly I think she is a bit autistic, in many occasions she doesn't comprehend proper social protocol.

[catsmom21]

Perhaps your family might say to you

"look, your sister is who she is, and you are who you are, quit making comparisons and give her a call and tell her you love her"

So what if you are "smarter"? I bet she has some asset that you don't.

Kiss and make up, life is short and sisters are to be cherished.

[fergie 2]

Originally Posted by catsmom21

Perhaps your family might say to you

"look, your sister is who she is, and you are who you are, quit making comparisons and give her a call and tell her you love her"

So what if you are "smarter"? I bet she has some asset that you don't.

Kiss and make up, life is short and sisters are to be cherished.

I think people should accept their places in life. It is society that says people should get over envy.

[lovesMountains]

Originally Posted by fergie 2

I don't want to. She is a bully and frankly has shown NO empathy to me, merely for being smarter and more mentally aware than she is. Frankly I think she is a bit autistic, in many occasions she doesn't comprehend proper social protocol.

Well, you don't have to take the high road if you'd rather just slog thru the swampiness of the low road

[underthesun7]

Originally Posted by fergie 2

I haven't spoken to my sister in months, and I hope it's not for months to come. She has always been envious of me for holding more mental weight than her, and enough is enough! The line is drawn here, this far, no further!!

I want all of our family to say "look, fergie is smarter than you!! get over it!! learn life eventualities and coping skills!!"

I will get flamed, but I don't care. healthy people have emotional management, and part of that is emotional expression.

you're the intelligent sibling?....

[catsmom21]

ummhmmm......I've seen your other posts, I'm out.

[fergie 2]

Originally Posted by lovesMountains

Well, you don't have to take the high road if you'd rather just slog thru the swampiness of the low road

You're not making sense. Bullying is not justified. Please explain why it is.

[lovesMountains]

Originally Posted by fergie 2

You're not making sense. Bullying is not justified. Please explain why it is.

Where did I say bullying is justified??

I just said take the high road with your sister and refuse to sink to her level.