Friend behaving badly.

[h886]

At this point, I don't think you have anything to lose by giving it one more shot. If she's awful to you when you hang out, you can speak your mind then. If it turns out it was just being off her meds and wedding stress, you'll have avoided jumping on her right off the bat.

Her behavior would annoy me too. At the same time, we all go through bad periods. Maybe it's wedding stress or being depressed after a breakup or a family member getting sick or whatever. If she's generally been a good friend, I would reevaluate how things are now. If she's still snippy, I would mention it in the moment. "That hurts my feelings..." I would avoid piling on months worth of recalled incidents because I don't think that solves anything. From your posts, you've always struck me as quite reasonable and I'm sure you'll handle it well here.

[stepka]

Originally Posted by thatsong64

Your entire advice is based on your disbelief of ADHD? Wow, you're really helpful.

Yes, I've noticed that whenever ADHD is mentioned on this forum no matter what the topic, someone has to chime in a tell everyone how stupid they are for believing in a made-up disorder. It's very annoying. Glad pimpy has his whole brain going for him.

Originally Posted by Hobokenkitchen

I think if she acknowledged that she's been snippy then I would be able to let it go. But she hasn't. Honestly I thought she might say something after the wedding, but not so far.

I'm not looking for a big apology, but I guess something would be nice!

Maybe she wants to get together to apologize to your face rather than one of those phone or text "Sorry!"type things that doesn't mean much. If she doesn't, then you can make up your mind on how you want to proceed but chances are that she's lost her snap. Some women are truly awful while getting married and they don't necessarily have to have ADHD, though planning a wedding with ADHD while off meds? Not in my worst nightmare.