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04-05-2012, 09:37 AM
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"friend" can't handle my weight
He's gotten pretty nasty about it though this is how he has always been in regards to my weight. I'm pretty small- a size 0 or 1 at the biggest but he insists I am a size 2 and have an "average" body fat % above 25% when in reality I maintain a % that is clearly under 25% considering I have 23-24 inch waist and my thighs don't touch.
Any insights about why this man is such an a-hole to me? He brings my weight up constantly, claiming that I am "heavy".
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04-05-2012, 09:39 AM
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Location: Infernuan
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Why are you 'friends' with this guy?
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04-05-2012, 09:40 AM
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Location: Chicago
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Quote:
Originally Posted by markymarc
He's gotten pretty nasty about it though this is how he has always been in regards to my weight. I'm pretty small- a size 0 or 1 at the biggest but he insists I am a size 2 and have an "average" body fat % above 25% when in reality I maintain a % that is clearly under 25% considering I have 23-24 inch waist and my thighs don't touch.
Any insights about why this man is such an a-hole to me? He brings my weight up constantly, claiming that I am "heavy".
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WTF? Is this a joke? He is an a-hole if he truly believes even a Size 2 is "too heavy". I would drop him as a friend if this is true.
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04-05-2012, 09:41 AM
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"Truth isnt always PC, but there is only one. Seek it."
(set 3 days ago)
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punch him in the forehead, next time he says it. why does that bother you?
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04-05-2012, 09:42 AM
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Location: Wherever women are
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I will never trust a woman on her weight until I personally inspect the specimen.
Some women dress strategically, in such cases I may have to use the traditional lift/gauge methodology.
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04-05-2012, 09:44 AM
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Clock the guy with a skillet. Maybe you'll jar something loose.
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04-05-2012, 09:47 AM
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Location: New Jersey
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I had a male friends that would make negative comment about my weight too like thunder thighs or whatever b/c they think it's a joke. they don't care that it's not considered a joke. they also like to embarrass you in a group of other male friends and women for two reasons. first one: they want the other guys to know they are not sexually/romantically interested in you. give them an ego boost to just randomly put somebody down. and also to let the other women in the group know you're not their type, especially if the other women are more attractive then U. anyways, i am hip to all their little games.
Last edited by Doll Eyes; 04-05-2012 at 09:57 AM..
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04-05-2012, 09:47 AM
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Tell him to blow off and move on, he is NOT a friend so quit wasting your time.
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04-05-2012, 09:56 AM
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Doesn't sound like a friend at all. And it sounds like his messed up in the head. You don't sound even remotely close to being over weight.
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04-05-2012, 10:03 AM
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lol go outside and get him a twig i guess..
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