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A friend of mine had a problem with me. fine, I had no problem owning up to whatever her problems with me were. she chose to approach me on FB about it. I thought no big deal, we'll drop it in 5 minutes or else I would have asked her to meet up with me so we can talk about it in person. Well, it turned into a 3 day blowout!! by the 3rd message, I finally asked her if we could meet in person once she cooled off. she refused, claiming its not a good idea, even though I said, take the time to cool off! And instead, just attacked me over and over. Every message after taht I kept asking her to take it off FB and she just kept going. Finally I just stopped responding. We're both 25..I can't believe her! and I feel stupid that I went along with it for even a second! All my other friends taht I have ever had an issue with or who have had an issue with me (even boyfriends!!), I always approached them or they approached me with "hey can we meet up sometime to talk? I have some things I wanted to talk about". and we don't attack each other. The friends I did have that approached me like this, are no longer my friends.
I don't get why women can't step away from emotions for a second! I know I"m not perfect in my communication but I have the maturity to understand that if I'm PO'd, that its not a good time to approach a problem with anyone cause then I'll just be irrational! and I don't spew out irrelevant attacks on anyone when I'm upset..I don't even behave that way with my own mother and her and I don't get along at all! gaaah!
Last edited by PJSaturn; 04-12-2012 at 01:13 PM..
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What's the problem? Is it about that BF you posted about before?
That's part of it. but the problem(s) she has with me isn't the problem. its the way she approached me and her attack on me isn't solving anything. She just hurt my feelings, is what she accomplished.
That's part of it. but the problem(s) she has with me isn't the problem. its the way she approached me and her attack on me isn't solving anything. She just hurt my feelings, is what she accomplished.
Well, I know nothing about FB fights, so I can't be of any help.
That's part of it. but the problem(s) she has with me isn't the problem. its the way she approached me and her attack on me isn't solving anything. She just hurt my feelings, is what she accomplished.
Why don't you just put your emotions aside and get over it?
Why don't you just put your emotions aside and get over it?
because she attacked me!! I'm not gonna pretend its ok, its not. and I am more than willing to put my emotions aside, in person, not this juvenile, over fb b.s. ha, just got your rep comment, no worries!
Well, be thankful it's only on fb and not her kicking your ass in public. Damn!
It never would have escalated if she would have approached me like a normal person. the computer screen is safe for her but she claims to have more "balls" than I do.....alrighty then. If that's what she wants to think then..
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The friends I did have that approached me like this, are no longer my friends. 
...alrighty then. If that's what she wants to think then..
