How do you deal with a lazy daughter-in-law?

[stan4]

None none none none...

None of your business how their house or their marriage run.

Nope. No no no no.

None of your business at all.

[reebo]

Op was from 2007.

[hunterseat]

I think I'd let them sort it out. As long as it's not in MY house! Very sad for all, though. She sounds like she needs help. Maybe family counseling. Your son can go by himself to start if she's not interested. He needs to figure this out.