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Old 04-04-2013, 07:13 AM
 
Location: IN A COOKIE JAR
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Can't say its ever bothered me. Boobies are apart of life. I do think its funny if two of us with really big boobies smoosh. Then I kinda laugh. But its never uncomfortable.
This^^^has happened to me too, and it is funny, though mine are not huge many of my friends have big boobies - it makes for soft, cuddly hugs as well. Those hugs have a very nurturing warmth to them.

One time a friend of mine with who is extremely well endowed on top bent over to hug me from behind at a restaurant. She was standing and I was sitting. I reached up and tried to hug her but all I got was a face full of boobies. It was funny, not awkward - women don't care. I am sure women with large breasts are always - by accident - shoving them in odd places.
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Old 04-04-2013, 07:22 AM
 
Location: Baltimore, MD
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This^^^has happened to me too, and it is funny, though mine are not huge many of my friends have big boobies - it makes for soft, cuddly hugs as well. Those hugs have a very nurturing warmth to them.
It does now that you mention it. It reminds me of when I was very little and my mom hugged me goodnight. I could feel her boobies up against my chest and it was reassuring.
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Old 04-04-2013, 08:11 AM
 
Location: State of Being
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Wowzers - can't believe one of the most comforting things in this world - a wonderful, warm, sincere, caring hug - would become awkward.

I honestly have never noticed the "boob smash" as someone put it. I am a hugger and love to be hugged - by both sexes (if it is someone I am close to).

Sad that folks would sexualize a hug. That is kinda sicko.
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Old 04-04-2013, 08:57 AM
 
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It doesn't bother me, but if it bothers you, you can always initiate the "arm around the shoulder squeeze" instead.
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Old 04-04-2013, 09:26 AM
 
Location: New York, NY
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I love hugging and the boob touching is never a conscious thought. I am too engaged in the expression of sincere affection.
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Old 04-04-2013, 11:59 AM
 
Location: The western periphery of Terra Australis
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Reminds me of jokes about big-breasted women who can't hug haha.

The few times I've hugged my female friends I actually never thought about this! I guess I don't really think of them sexually...

that much.
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Old 04-04-2013, 12:36 PM
 
Location: Eureka CA
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No.
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Old 04-04-2013, 12:50 PM
 
Location: Northern NH
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Every time my friends hug me, my boobs can feel theirs .It makes me feel awkward. But no one seemed to care. Anyone feel the same way?

No I don't. I don't care if my boobs smush and I am confused why you would either?????? It isn't a sexual hug.
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Old 04-04-2013, 02:16 PM
 
Location: Western Washington
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In all my 51 years and hundreds of woman to woman hugs, I can honestly say that I haven't thought about this one time....as in EVER. If I'm hugging another woman, the last thing I'm thinking about is boobs.

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Old 04-04-2013, 03:25 PM
 
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I like hugging my female friends.
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