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Old 09-09-2013, 04:24 PM
 
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sometimes there are really nice people but I just don't care for them.

For instance, there is a new girl at work, and she is nice, but I don't care for her. She tries to be funny, but I don't think she is funny, when she talks she uses "baby talk" which is find immature. Everyone else likes her - A LOT!

She does her work & seems smart, but I just can't get past the fact that I think she is being fake with everyone.

No one else sees this so I think it must just be me.

I force myself to be nice to her but I think she knows that I don't care for her. Others ask her questions about her kids & stuff but I just walk on by, because frankly, I don't care.

How do you all deal with people like this?
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Old 09-09-2013, 04:39 PM
 
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be nice, you never know about people, she could have a basement of voodoo dolls of everyone she works with..

if she isnt harming you,,,then let it go- even if she is fake,,

if this is a big concern in your life,,then you are doing pretty good
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Old 09-09-2013, 04:42 PM
 
Location: Utica, NY
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People irritate the crap out of me. There's a girl at work just like your coworker. Her voice is the equivalent of nails on a chalkboard.
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Old 09-09-2013, 05:04 PM
 
Location: here
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People are annoying, in general. I try to be nice and realize it might be "me" not "them."
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Old 09-09-2013, 05:12 PM
 
Location: SE Michigan
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Like OMG idk!

SMH
Stunningly insightful comment. Not.
Off to my ignore bin with ya!
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Old 09-09-2013, 05:14 PM
 
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How do I deal with people who are nice and friendly?

I'm nice and friendly in return.
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Old 09-09-2013, 05:32 PM
 
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How do I deal with people who are nice and friendly?

I'm nice and friendly in return.
I am but she grates on my nerves.....
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Old 09-09-2013, 05:34 PM
 
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People are annoying, in general. I try to be nice and realize it might be "me" not "them."
Or maybe it is them? Doesn't mean you have to do anything about it, but maybe this gal really is annoying even though she's nice and friendly.

But maybe she is really annoying. Why does it have to be my problem? Just sayin'.....
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Old 09-09-2013, 05:35 PM
 
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People irritate the crap out of me. There's a girl at work just like your coworker. Her voice is the equivalent of nails on a chalkboard.

What do you do to feel better?
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Old 09-09-2013, 05:36 PM
 
Location: Utica, NY
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What do you do to feel better?
Headphones & death metal.
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