What do you think of people who stand over the casket and talk to the deceased? (wife, retirement) - Non-Romantic Relationships -Issues with friends, family, co-workers, acquaintances - Page 2 - City-Data Forum

oh-eve · 12-06-2013, 08:14 AM

You really need to find a hobby.

TheShadow · 12-06-2013, 10:01 AM

Lots of people do it. Not that weird. You sure comment about other people's behavior a lot.

Pitt Chick · 12-06-2013, 10:07 AM

The OP definitely needs to find something to occupy his time....

Lilac110 · 12-06-2013, 10:22 AM

People grieving by talking to the deceased is not interesting to me.

What would be interesting is if the deceased started talking back!

lovesMountains · 12-06-2013, 10:24 AM

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Originally Posted by Pitt Chick

The OP definitely needs to find something to occupy his time....

I have suggested a creative writing class, but he has ignored that

30to66at55 · 12-06-2013, 10:26 AM

I think Hispanics are big into taking pictures at wakes.

I also have seen an hispanic family having a picnic at a recently buried relatives grave. Found that weird.

lovesMountains · 12-06-2013, 10:38 AM

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Originally Posted by Lilac110

People grieving by talking to the deceased is not interesting to me.

What would be interesting is if the deceased started talking back!

Yeah, that would sure be interesting!

The Dissenter · 12-06-2013, 10:41 AM

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Originally Posted by oh-eve

You really need to find a hobby.

I think a job would do him better with his posting history over hundreds of past lives.

sade693 · 12-06-2013, 10:59 AM

As has already been said, different people grieve in different ways. So the behaviors you described, especially the first, aren't weird at all.

Seriously, OP, do you just like the attention of having people respond to all the threads that you start? What's going on?

cdnirene · 12-06-2013, 11:10 AM

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Originally Posted by I'm Retired Now

Are these proper things to do at a wake at a funeral home?

Your concerned about etiquette? Well, if that's important to you at a time of grieving, my take would be:

If they are not being rude, disruptive or hurtful, then it's O.K. Actually, their actions showed that they cared about the person. What's more proper than that in that setting?