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Old 12-09-2011, 03:10 PM
 
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Sorry, I haven't read the thread so that comment was probably out of place. Do I say "Will you be my friend?"
Don't you have any friends, srjth?
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Old 12-09-2011, 03:16 PM
 
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Nah...

Well, that was a long time ago. I knew her for over a year and I spent an INSANE amount of time alone with her. I gave up after the first rejection and needed about a year or so to TRULY get over her. A year!

But once I was over her, I was over her. She's married now, and she's one of my most reliable friends. We have a lot in common. Yea, she thought I was ugly, so she wouldn't f@ck me. F@ck it.

If it was up to me, I'd just as soon view women with zero emotional attachment. Pieces of meat. Say a McDonalds hamburger. If one rejects me, there's a million others out there. Until I find one that likes me. You'll never see me being the chump chasing some woman again. Screw that...

And my advice is really the same to other men. Friends first is stupid...

What would happen if her husband passes and she suddenly feels very lonely? Would you say no, or would you hope she wants a real relationship after all the sex?
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Old 12-09-2011, 03:17 PM
 
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Some people here are kidding themselves.
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Old 12-09-2011, 03:21 PM
 
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Sorry, I haven't read the thread so that comment was probably out of place. Do I say "Will you be my friend?"
just pulling your legs srjth.
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Old 12-09-2011, 03:22 PM
 
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Some people here are kidding themselves.
Kidding themselves in what sense? Are you implying that its impossible for men and women to have a platonic relationship?
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Old 12-09-2011, 03:24 PM
 
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Kidding themselves in what sense? Are you implying that its impossible for men and women to have a platonic relationship?
Oh it's possible alright. I have had male friends I have been platonic with all my life. But ALL of them have wanted more and told me so. I kept it platonic.
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Old 12-09-2011, 03:24 PM
 
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Don't you have any friends, srjth?
Female friends, yes. Male friends, no.

I just sometimes really need a male perspective and it's a nice change from being around females like I am most of the time. I mean I like being around my female friends but something different is nice.
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Old 12-09-2011, 03:30 PM
 
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Oh it's possible alright. I have had male friends I have been platonic with all my life. But ALL of them have wanted more and told me so. I kept it platonic.
wow, you must be smoking hawt Nah, seriously, that's your personal experience and does not apply to every straight man out there. I have plenty of women friends that i wanted nothing to do with sexually. They were just very good, fun loving people to have around....nothing more.
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Old 12-09-2011, 03:33 PM
 
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wow, you must be smoking hawt Nah, seriously, that's your personal experience and does not apply to every straight man out there. I have plenty of women friends that i wanted nothing to do with sexually. They were just very good, fun loving people to have around....nothing more.
I'm not smoking hawt, just your average girl next door type.
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Old 12-09-2011, 04:16 PM
 
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With half my female friends I'd do em in a heartbeat given the opportunity.

The other half are those that are not physically attractive.
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