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Old 01-16-2014, 02:05 PM
 
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Than use the excuse that there father was never there and that's why they do it make me sick. I never had a father growing up. I don't know him, I've never met him which is MY EXCUSE for doing everything in my power to be the best father I can. I don't understand how you can know the pain of being a boy and never having a father is and still not refusing to pass that on to the next generation.

My beef isn't with men that don't raise there children who they themselves had fathers but ones like me that didn't and still don't raise theres I HATE THEM! Hate is a strong word and I mean it! They disgust me, I can't be around them, they make me very angry.

Raising my children is therapy. Because I never had a father I almost have the privlage of being my own father thru my own children, by giving them something I never had in a way I feel I am providing it for myself, it is the most amazing thing in life and even though I hate them I still pitty those children trapped in mens bodies who do not do the same, because they really are missing out and by the time they learn that, it will be too late.

Now I know there are exceptions, men who go to prison, men who have crazy baby mommas that try to keep there kids away from the father and turn them against them for wicked reasons but in most cases that's not how it is.
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Old 01-16-2014, 02:44 PM
 
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Old 01-16-2014, 03:41 PM
 
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What annoys me about that is how my mother used to whine all about how my brother's dad wasn't around and poor him because he was a boy, but when it came to me, it was like I didn't need a father so it didn't matter that mine wasn't around.
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Old 01-16-2014, 04:45 PM
 
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I feel you!! The same goes for women who refuse or can't or choose not to be mothers!!!

Hate is a strong word but if the shoe fits...
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Old 01-16-2014, 07:03 PM
 
Location: The Greater Houston Metro Area
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I feel you!! The same goes for women who refuse or can't or choose not to be mothers!!!

Hate is a strong word but if the shoe fits...
A woman choosing to be childless is not the same as someone bringing a child into the world and shirking the responsibilities to that child.

Why would you hate women that are childless? Yikes.
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Old 01-17-2014, 08:14 AM
 
Location: SoCal again
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Be a good father and teach your children the difference of THERE and THEIR
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Old 01-17-2014, 08:15 AM
 
Location: SoCal again
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I feel you!! The same goes for women who refuse or can't or choose not to be mothers!!!
I hope this is a joke.
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Old 01-17-2014, 08:26 AM
 
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Thank you! My goodness that was painful.
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Old 01-17-2014, 08:33 AM
 
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A woman choosing to be childless is not the same as someone bringing a child into the world and shirking the responsibilities to that child.

Why would you hate women that are childless? Yikes.
I hope he only means women who bear children and give them away.
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Old 01-17-2014, 08:34 AM
 
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I hope he only means women who bear children and give them away.
OP sounds generally confused/impaired. I hope he gets the help he needs.
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