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Old 05-05-2014, 11:24 AM
 
Location: Jupiter
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I have a female friend named Melissa. She's a hooters girl. She forces me and my friends (who are introverts) to do things we aren't comfortable with. Now, I want to end the friendship because me and my friends aren't comfortable with her in our social circle. How do I let her down without her getting pissed?
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Old 05-05-2014, 11:27 AM
 
Location: Southeast, where else?
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I have a female friend named Melissa. She's a hooters girl. She forces me and my friends (who are introverts) to do things we aren't comfortable with. Now, I want to end the friendship because me and my friends aren't comfortable with her in our social circle. How do I let her down without her getting pissed?

Wow, what a troll thread.....Okay, is this like:

Dear Penthouse;

I'm a normal guy that stays relatively quiet when I was emersed in a set of 38 DD cups.....after my 5th orgasm in 4 hours, I thought it would never end. Then, her friend stopped by.....

Please....
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Old 05-05-2014, 11:30 AM
 
Location: Jupiter
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Wow, what a troll thread.....Okay, is this like:

Dear Penthouse;

I'm a normal guy that stays relatively quiet when I was emersed in a set of 38 DD cups.....after my 5th orgasm in 4 hours, I thought it would never end. Then, her friend stopped by.....

Please....
It's not a troll thread. I'm very serious.
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Old 05-05-2014, 11:32 AM
 
Location: Pittsburgh
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What does she force you to do?

Next time she wants you to do something with her, tell her you're busy. You don't have to break up with her.
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Old 05-05-2014, 11:34 AM
 
Location: Jupiter
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What does she force you to do?

Next time she wants you to do something with her, tell her you're busy. You don't have to break up with her.
Go out to concerts, meet her friends and family, make us go hiking, and go to museums. Me and my friends don't like that stuff. We enjoy video games and sports. Basically, we are nerds.
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Old 05-05-2014, 11:49 AM
 
Location: Long Island, NY
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Go out to concerts, meet her friends and family, make us go hiking, and go to museums. Me and my friends don't like that stuff. We enjoy video games and sports. Basically, we are nerds.

Can you explain exactly how she "forces" you and your friends to these things?
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Old 05-05-2014, 12:01 PM
 
Location: Jupiter
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Can you explain exactly how she "forces" you and your friends to these things?
Forced was the wrong word. I should've said we do these things but we don't like them. Now I am breaking the news to her today that we can't be friends. Problem is that she's a very emotional woman.
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Old 05-05-2014, 12:04 PM
 
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Why didn't you just be all grown up and say "No" when it comes to doing things that you do not like to do?
If you say no enough the one asking will eventually quit asking.
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Old 05-05-2014, 12:06 PM
 
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I doubt she will be crying or caring too much about the loss of some sports/gaming obsessed geeks who want to stay home all the time. You guys should use this friendship with her to actually meet some real women who are open to new experiences.
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Old 05-05-2014, 12:09 PM
 
Location: Arlington, VA and Washington, DC
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Forced was the wrong word. I should've said we do these things but we don't like them. Now I am breaking the news to her today that we can't be friends. Problem is that she's a very emotional woman.
Then text or message her y'all are finished as friends and let that be the end of it. Don't reply to anything she sends you.
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