This, get to counseling, stat!
I disagree with the below in that there obviously are problems in the marriage that need addressing, i.e., you and your husband are not on the same page re his mother's behavior. That's what needs fixing. Any competent marriage counselor will address this issue. It's not about what you want your husband to do or not do, and in the long run it's not about your mother-in-law, it's about you and husband finding and strengthening the common ground that brought and holds you together. You need professional help to do that, don't delay.
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Originally Posted by Hedgehog_Mom
Since you want your husband to realize his mom is taking advantage of him and manipulating him without a huge episode of family drama, maybe you could suggest to him that the two of you go to couples counseling...not because you need counseling or because your marriage needs help, but because your husband might benefit from some counseling to help him deal with his relationship with his mother and set boundaries. .
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