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"My friend has stopped asking me to rent a room to her and has instead begun looking for a new apartment"...so instead of letting it go ,you bring up the subject again of rent and moving, so yes stirring the pot.
You're some friend. You said " Today, I finally confronted her and asked just why it is that she can no longer afford a rent that's about $100 extra per month. She claims she has a major medical bill to pay off"...your some friend, by saying "she claims" mean you don't believe her about the medical bill.
You live in the same complex, sounds more like a very casual neighbor/friendship than real friends.
And why are you spying on her? Most apt. complexes have assigned spots, how do you know that she isn't out looking and getting back before you do? Again, not that it is your business.
Maybe look in the car window and write down what the odometer says, so you can confront her about that....LOL.
And in your first post you said you bought a house . So how do you know her comings and goings at this apt. complex. Why would you still be there? That makes no sense.
You don't want her living with her, fine. Don't want to lend her money, fine. But it's none of your business what bills she owes or whether or not she is actually looking for another apt.
"My friend has stopped asking me to rent a room to her and has instead begun looking for a new apartment"...so instead of letting it go ,you bring up the subject again of rent and moving, so yes stirring the pot.
You're some friend. You said " Today, I finally confronted her and asked just why it is that she can no longer afford a rent that's about $100 extra per month. She claims she has a major medical bill to pay off"...your some friend, by saying "she claims" mean you don't believe her about the medical bill.
You live in the same complex, sounds more like a very casual neighbor/friendship than real friends.
And why are you spying on her? Most apt. complexes have assigned spots, how do you know that she isn't out looking and getting back before you do? Again, not that it is your business.
Maybe look in the car window and write down what the odometer says, so you can confront her about that....LOL.
And in your first post you said you bought a house . So how do you know her comings and goings at this apt. complex. Why would you still be there? That makes no sense.
You don't want her living with her, fine. Don't want to lend her money, fine. But it's none of your business what bills she owes or whether or not she is actually looking for another apt.
"My friend has stopped asking me to rent a room to her and has instead begun looking for a new apartment"...so instead of letting it go ,you bring up the subject again of rent and moving, so yes stirring the pot.
You're some friend. You said " Today, I finally confronted her and asked just why it is that she can no longer afford a rent that's about $100 extra per month. She claims she has a major medical bill to pay off"...your some friend, by saying "she claims" mean you don't believe her about the medical bill.
You live in the same complex, sounds more like a very casual neighbor/friendship than real friends.
And why are you spying on her? Most apt. complexes have assigned spots, how do you know that she isn't out looking and getting back before you do? Again, not that it is your business.
Maybe look in the car window and write down what the odometer says, so you can confront her about that....LOL.
And in your first post you said you bought a house . So how do you know her comings and goings at this apt. complex. Why would you still be there? That makes no sense.
You don't want her living with her, fine. Don't want to lend her money, fine. But it's none of your business what bills she owes or whether or not she is actually looking for another apt.
I feel sorry for your friends, assuming you have any. Because apparently if your friends are going through difficult times, you won't bother to ask if there's something wrong. Instead you'll ignore it. Wow, how lucky your friends are to have someone like you in their lives. By the way Sherlock, did it ever occur to maybe the reason I haven't moved into my new house yet is because the current owners haven't moved out yet? As for the spying accusation, I didn't realize walking out to one's car and noticing another car nearby qualified as spying. There AREN'T assigned spots where we live. Lastly, the reason I used the word claimed in regards to her medical bill is that her spending behavior is inconsistent with someone who has a major debt to pay off. If you owed thousands of dollars for over a year, would you still be shopping for new clothes, going out to fancy restaurants, etc.?
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