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Old 09-09-2014, 06:00 PM
 
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A couple at my church recently had a wedding and when I saw the pictures on Facebook it looked like I was the only one not invited. I even saw this a pic of this girl that they just met three weeks ago that just started coming to my church at the wedding. Did they really invite someone they had just met three weeks before their wedding to their wedding and not me? I have been going there a year.
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Old 09-09-2014, 06:12 PM
 
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A couple at my church recently had a wedding and when I saw the pictures on Facebook it looked like I was the only one not invited. I even saw this a pic of this girl that they just met three weeks ago that just started coming to my church at the wedding. Did they really invite someone they had just met three weeks before their wedding to their wedding and not me? I have been going there a year.
How close were you to this couple? Just because you go to the same church doesn't mean they should feel obligated to invite you to the wedding. I'm guessing they were much closer to all of the poeple invited. This includes the "new girl". Maybe they knew her before, or maybe they have become extremely close in three weeks.
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Old 09-09-2014, 06:50 PM
 
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Are you sure you didn't miss an invite issued to the entire church? Where I grew up, people typically did that - would invite the entire church, usually by having it put in the church bulletin, or sometimes the minister would announce the invite.

Just a thought.
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Old 09-09-2014, 06:59 PM
 
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Are you sure you didn't miss an invite issued to the entire church? Where I grew up, people typically did that - would invite the entire church, usually by having it put in the church bulletin, or sometimes the minister would announce the invite.

Just a thought.

By George! I think anifani has got it!
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Old 09-09-2014, 09:03 PM
 
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Are you sure you didn't miss an invite issued to the entire church? Where I grew up, people typically did that - would invite the entire church, usually by having it put in the church bulletin, or sometimes the minister would announce the invite.

Just a thought.
That is what couples in our Church do.
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Old 09-09-2014, 11:17 PM
 
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A couple at my church recently had a wedding and when I saw the pictures on Facebook it looked like I was the only one not invited. I even saw this a pic of this girl that they just met three weeks ago that just started coming to my church at the wedding. Did they really invite someone they had just met three weeks before their wedding to their wedding and not me? I have been going there a year.
And this matters...why?
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Old 09-10-2014, 03:16 AM
 
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A couple at my church recently had a wedding and when I saw the pictures on Facebook it looked like I was the only one not invited. I even saw this a pic of this girl that they just met three weeks ago that just started coming to my church at the wedding. Did they really invite someone they had just met three weeks before their wedding to their wedding and not me? I have been going there a year.
If I were you I would not bother.
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Old 09-10-2014, 05:48 AM
 
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A couple at my church recently had a wedding and when I saw the pictures on Facebook it looked like I was the only one not invited. I even saw this a pic of this girl that they just met three weeks ago that just started coming to my church at the wedding. Did they really invite someone they had just met three weeks before their wedding to their wedding and not me? I have been going there a year.
You are going to be "not invited" to many weddings in your life.
You will have to learn to deal with it....
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Old 09-10-2014, 09:12 AM
 
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The same thing happened to me. A chick who worked in the office next to ours was getting married. Every one of my co-workers were invited to the wedding except for me and my manager. She used to come in every day and chat with everyone. I assumed we were cool. Obviously we weren't.

Maybe she thought the groom might be checking you out on the sly. LOL. Anyway, don't worry about it. I learned a long time ago not to GAF about people not liking me. Forget 'em.
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Old 09-10-2014, 07:53 PM
 
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Maybe you were in the ladies room when the announcement was read, or didn't go to church that particular Sunday. If you saw everybody from your church in the picture, then most likely the church got an invite as a whole. Don't take it personal.
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