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Old 10-11-2014, 04:12 AM
 
Location: Northern Ireland
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My younger sister keeps treating me like a dog and I have had enough of it. I cannot handle any of this anymore, it is so hurtful.

I try and have conversations with her and she will be really awkward telling me to get out of her way. She acts as if I am an embarrassment to her. She actually hates my existence, if I talk sometimes she will start moaning and telling me to shut up because she hates my voice.

In school last year i'd say hello and she'd tell me to go away - even her friends told her that this was rude. She is embarrassed to be near me, sometimes she will hit me and slap me and then scream in my face.

This is all really hurtful. I am not sure if this is normal for teenage siblings but I would hope it is not.
How can I get over this?
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Old 10-11-2014, 04:50 AM
 
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what is the age difference owen?
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Old 10-11-2014, 04:52 AM
 
Location: The Netherlands
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Do you treat her with respect? Because this look like she do the same in return to you. I wonder what you have done to slap. And you give your face her to slap?
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Old 10-11-2014, 04:55 AM
 
Location: Northern Ireland
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I am sorry but she does disrepect me herself. I can't even start a conversation but will tear into me.
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Old 10-11-2014, 05:45 AM
 
Location: The Netherlands
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I am sorry but she does disrepect me herself. I can't even start a conversation but will tear into me.
Any idea what is the base to treat you like that? Have talk to some one who can help both of you to come out with a solution? Crying does not help.
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Old 10-11-2014, 07:02 AM
 
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How old are you and how old is she ?
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Old 10-11-2014, 07:34 AM
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Location: in the miseries
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You both need counseling.
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Old 10-11-2014, 07:54 AM
 
Location: NYC
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Have you told your parents this?

Maybe they can help.
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Old 10-11-2014, 07:57 AM
 
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You need to give it right back to her. You don't react, you take it, therefore, she knows she can treat you this way. Show her otherwise.
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Old 10-11-2014, 07:58 AM
 
Location: Northern Ireland
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How old are you and how old is she ?
Hi i'm 18 and she is 17.
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