my friends ex is interested in me

[azurabug]

I think it's weird that your friend didn't mention that her and the guy dated. That's the kind of info you tell your girl friend from the get go unless you don't mind them ever being involved with each other.

Personally, I would ask her what her opinion is on the matter. If it makes her uncomfortable, I probably wouldn't do it. But how long were they dating? A year, a month? That makes a big difference. Personally, I've never been one to care if my friends want to date my ex as long as they at least ask me first (it shows they respect our friendship and me enough to ask) and the guy isn't a complete jerk.

[JaxRhapsody]

Originally Posted by azurabug

I think it's weird that your friend didn't mention that her and the guy dated. That's the kind of info you tell your girl friend from the get go unless you don't mind them ever being involved with each other.

Personally, I would ask her what her opinion is on the matter. If it makes her uncomfortable, I probably wouldn't do it. But how long were they dating? A year, a month? That makes a big difference. Personally, I've never been one to care if my friends want to date my ex as long as they at least ask me first (it shows they respect our friendship and me enough to ask) and the guy isn't a complete jerk.

Her opinion doesn't matter in the slightest, not mentioning they dated validates that even more. My girlfriend is a friends ex wife- I get in where I fit in. He's actually dating a chick another friend of ours dated, who also attempted to date another friend of ours. That other friend(second mentioned), is dating the chick, my first friend dated. I think he may have dated her before. My girlfriend also dated the girl who tried to date her ex husbands current girlfriend for six months or so, before we started dating. I can open Pandoras Box...

[JanND]

Originally Posted by woxyroxme

I find it kind of strange that she said she knew him from a support group but he said they had dated. Either way maybe you should discuss this with your friend at some time and let her know that he asked you out.

I find that strange too. I also have to wonder why he hit on you, knowing he had dated her?? I'd be asking your friend a few questions. You don't find that odd, he is there?....could be he was the clingy one, and she was just being nice when she said support group........more to this story. Updates please