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Old 01-11-2015, 05:49 PM
 
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Old 01-12-2015, 04:38 PM
 
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Grow up....You need to move out. Period. If you are online on their accounts, they have a right to worry about your visiting those type sites. Does your Dad work for the State or Gov't? Think about it.

Having sex in your Mom's home is disrespectful....Get your own place, or get a girlfriend/boyfriend with their own place.

And how would you know anything about your parents sex life?? Seems plenty of boundary issues in your living situation and not all from your Mom imo.
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Old 01-12-2015, 04:39 PM
 
Location: LA, CA/ In This Time and Place
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All the more reason to live on your own and move out-FAST! This should be among your short term goals before summer.
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Old 01-12-2015, 04:41 PM
 
Location: LA, CA/ In This Time and Place
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No not sex with family thats just gross.. I mean im having problems with sex in general because of my mother. I live at home because im currently in a course for a job im going into. Anyway my mother has a strict law on sex, like im 20 years old. She comes into peoples room to make sure that know one is "touching themselves" i one time found a camera in my room (i know crazy!) i pulled it out.. She hid it pretty well. She has always been like this ever since i was young. But im getting fed up. I installed a lock on my door and she started screaming and losing it. She has problems with my dad because she refuses to have sex because its "unclean" and not right. I dont know whats wrong with her. Its 5 times she has brought me to a emergency psyc because ahe claimed i was crazy for thinking about girls and sometimes looking at them a little more.. And lastly for finding porn on my computer. And all 5 times they send me home saying im normal. Is there something wrong with my mom? Because honestly i think there is.. Whats your input?

Yes there is something wrong with your mother?
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Old 01-24-2015, 07:16 PM
 
Location: Canada
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Thanks everyone!
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Old 01-25-2015, 03:18 PM
 
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im with lilac,,,you have a sister named carrie??

if you do- tell her to skip the prom!!
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Old 01-25-2015, 06:14 PM
 
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lol
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Old 04-25-2015, 11:18 PM
 
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Thanks for the support everyone
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Old 04-26-2015, 04:24 AM
 
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This could be chauvinism or just another overprotective mother

But seriously, you 20,not 10,so just talk to her about it/have someone do it

Or move out
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Old 04-26-2015, 02:22 PM
 
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I agree with anyone who thinks that she has obvious control issues. She does. She doesn't want to lose her grip on you. Move out, as soon as possible. It'll be better for you and your mother on the long run.
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