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Old 06-08-2017, 01:43 PM
 
Location: On the Beach
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Absolutely Not. Would you want "extended" family contacting you if you won big?
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Old 06-08-2017, 03:03 PM
 
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Of course, I'd call that person to tell him/her thanks. I'd also call that person if he or she were getting married, having a child, or anything else in life.

Only people who always have an agenda think that everybody else has an agenda, too.
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Old 06-10-2017, 03:04 PM
 
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No! For some of them, I'd actually pay them to leave me alone.
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Old 06-10-2017, 06:35 PM
 
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No. Now if they gave me $ I'd take it. I would send them a card and congradate them.
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Old 06-10-2017, 06:36 PM
 
Location: Texas
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No. Not my money. I have enough.
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Old 06-10-2017, 11:17 PM
 
Location: Long Neck , DE
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I would keep the relationship as it was before their win. Fortunately my state (Delaware) does not force public disclosure of winner's name.
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Old 06-11-2017, 05:49 AM
 
Location: London U.K.
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I would not. First of all, I have my pride and it's very much intact. Too intact to shamelessly act like I'm close to my extended family just to (obviously) get in on the cash.
You and I both pp.

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Of course I would contact them and ask for money! The people who say they would not ask for money are lying!
Speak for yourself, oh, you obviously have.
You appear to have a very warped idea of your fellow man.
How you can admit on a Public Forum that of course
you'd ask ask for money is beyond me.
I'd never consider asking for it, and I'm NOT lying.

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Absolutely Not. Would you want "extended" family contacting you if you won big?
No, nor would anyone I guess, naturally I'd help family, but a one time step brother's distant cousin is bang out of luck.
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Old 06-11-2017, 11:09 AM
 
Location: North Idaho
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If my extended family won the lottery, I'd never hear about it and they most certainly wouldn't offer to share with me. If I won the lottery, I suspect they would come swarming around with their hands out.

Immediate family, though, we already have a pact about how a lottery win would be handled. Although, since no one plays, it is sort of a mote point.
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Old 06-11-2017, 12:20 PM
 
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Contact them an ask for money? Of course not.
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Old 06-11-2017, 06:14 PM
 
Location: Minnesota
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If it's a distant cousin I never speak to, no. If it were my cousin i see once a year at Christmas I definitely would. not to ask for money but say congratulations. Maybe he'd volunteer a couple thousand.
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