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Tell her not to put you in the middle....If she wants to know something about your friend, she should go to her.....Sounds like a drama filled work place....
Keep your business life at work and your personal/home life at home, out of the office.
Go in, do the job you are paid a salary to do and stay out of other's personal business unless of course you are paid to be
the gossip and hall monitor in charge of all the she/said, she did, he said, he did........of the 4th grade.
Simply stay out of it. Honestly I work with all women and thats how it is DRAMA! As long as you mind your business and not put yourself in the middle of ours arguments you'll be fine. If you do decide to get in the middle beware this will get nasty.
I need some advice please. I was approached by a coworker the other day asking about my friend who also works with us. She said that mu friend has said things about her to our other coworkers. She asked me if I think my friend has said it because she couldnt believe that it came from her. She said she did not say some of the things that was brought up to her.
What happened was this girl confronted some of our coworkers at work (will call them J and C). J and C said that S said that T said these things. J and C said that if T doesnt believe it they will put S on the phone to confirm. T said they dont need to.
S is my friend but lately I havent talked or hung out with her much. Shes been hanging out more with J and C. Can anyone give an advice what should I do? Thanks
What's the advice you're seeking?...I'm not really sure. Best I could say is don't let anyone else choose your friends for you....don't listen to gossip.
The communication in your post is rather confusing, so I'm not sure if I'm understanding correctly. It seems like work should be done at the workplace, though. Why would gossip enter into the equation unless you're allowing yourself to be manipulated by these people? I'd back away really quickly and simply concentrate on doing the job I'm paid to do, personally. Nothing good can come from allowing yourself to be pulled into other peoples' dramas.
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