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Originally Posted by fluffythewondercat
I don't understand. Didn't your husband's step-siblings have their own father? Why would they think they were due anything at all?
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Yes they have their own father. The only difference is that my husband's father had money and status.
The older two half siblings were always resentful of how my husband and his full blooded brother were "indulged" by their father and felt that since they did their family bit that they should get something out of it. The fact that he gave them the best education money could buy and a lifestyle they otherwise would never enjoy/experience didn't matter. My husband's father comes from Old Money, so when Grandma died and she didn't list them as one of her heirs really rubbed it in that they weren't part of that family. I mean, they were accepted into the family fold... they just didn't get any money out of it.
The youngest half sibling who was born years and years after my husband's father's death felt that she should have a piece because it's "supposed" to be their mother's money (and of course, Mommy would've given her some money).
As to why they feel entitled, my MIL doesn't exactly help. She's the kind of woman who purposely pits her kids against each other and plays all kinds of manipulation, mindf### games. When the oldest two lost their father recently, my MIL started the whole cascade of drama with them and they were trying to suck in the rest of the family. My husband (and his full blooded brother) incidentally became unavailable throughout that whole thing.