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Old 07-16-2015, 07:08 PM
 
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I haven't talked to my friend Monica in almost 2 months. The last time I tried to contact her she ignored my texts and I'm not sure if we're even friends anymore. Should I move on from her or try again?
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Old 07-17-2015, 12:18 AM
 
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Stop trying. The ball is in her court.
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Old 07-17-2015, 11:06 AM
 
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Go on with your life.
Why "move on from her"?
Does that mean if she doesn't get back to you, you would end the friendship?
I have good friends I've neither seen nor talked to in YEARS.
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Old 07-17-2015, 12:07 PM
 
Location: Arizona
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If you've tried with no response I'd just let her go. If she contacts you, you can decide from there if you want to continue to be friends or not, otherwise the stress isn't worth it.
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Old 07-17-2015, 12:10 PM
 
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I haven't talked to my friend Monica in almost 2 months. The last time I tried to contact her she ignored my texts and I'm not sure if we're even friends anymore. Should I move on from her or try again?
Move on, otherwise you'll look like a loser.
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Old 07-17-2015, 03:28 PM
 
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Are you sure she still has the same phone #?
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Old 07-17-2015, 03:41 PM
 
Location: louisville
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Friendship never dies although romantic love may. In time, it will be revealed whether you were truly friends or not.
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Old 07-18-2015, 07:49 AM
 
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First of all, I would be more concerned if she is safe. If you are sure she is and she is ignoring your texts, it seems pretty clear to me how your "friend" feels about you.
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Old 07-20-2015, 11:53 AM
 
Location: Honolulu/DMV Area/NYC
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I agree. Move on, but just not with bad thoughts. Its entirely possible that your friend changed her number/lost her phone/etc. In any event, if you two are meant to reconnect in the future, it will happen. But don't waste your energy too much right now.
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Old 07-20-2015, 11:13 PM
 
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We start college back in the fall. It was only one text she ignored because I stopped trying. I hate always initiating contact so I let her most times but we both haven't tried.
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