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I expected something ONLY after he offered. Do you not understand
If he would never have offered anything after I did those things than I would expect nothing. Do you not understand.
Let say you helped me clean my living room. You might not expect anything from me in return. However if I said thanks cinder for helping clean my living room we got to go get dinner sometime. Then I would expect you to now expect something from me. Make sense?
I expected something ONLY after he offered. Do you not understand
If he would never have offered anything after I did those things than I would expect nothing. Do you not understand.
Let say you helped me clean my living room. You might not expect anything from me in return. However if I said thanks cinder for helping clean my living room we got to go get dinner sometime. Then I would expect you to now expect something from me. Make sense?
But you didn't offer to buy anyone dinner either. If he simply said y'all should go out to dinner that is a suggestion, not an offer.
If you had said "I would like to take you to dinner" that's different.
I expected something ONLY after he offered. Do you not understand
If he would never have offered anything after I did those things than I would expect nothing. Do you not understand.
Let say you helped me clean my living room. You might not expect anything from me in return. However if I said thanks cinder for helping clean my living room we got to go get dinner sometime. Then I would expect you to now expect something from me. Make sense?
I understand OP - its not me with several threads on the same unrequited crush...!
Let's get dinner sometime is not an invitation. It's about as casual and noncommittal as words can get. He meant nothing by it. He certainly did not mean he was going to take you out and pay for a meal. Why can't you understand that ?
Let's get dinner sometime is not an invitation. It's about as casual and noncommittal as words can get. He meant nothing by it. He certainly did not mean he was going to take you out and pay for a meal. Why can't you understand that ?
So why did he say that immediately afterheoffere the Christmas gift from me.
When Ihelped out at the restaurant, immediately after he said lets get dinner sometime.
He never goes around just saying that stuff to me except on those rare occasions. Other than those times he never made such statements.
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