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Old 01-05-2016, 01:42 PM
 
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Lol that's one thing I'm not. Someone who's just like whoops I got pregnant.
I've been on the pill for years.
How else do you think I've made it to almost 27, no kids, no abortions, no miscarriages?
I'm doing something right. 👍🏼

Congratulations. Not getting pregnant is quite the accomplishment. Maybe you can put that on your resume.
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Old 01-05-2016, 01:42 PM
 
Location: Wherever life takes me.
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No health insurance either? Can you tell us what you HAVE done right?
Yes well 5 days ago I had it.
I didn't make enough in 2014, I was off work. I couldn't go in the way I was.
Then I either had to leave early, take days off, not work long shifts. I went from $1000 a check to $200 in a matter of 6 months. I thought I could go back. I couldn't.

It was only $20 a month for my health insurance and now it'd be over $300.
I also don't qualify for Medicaid in my state.

I qualify back in Colorado but that move won't be happening any time soon due to the deadline and his job.
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Old 01-05-2016, 01:45 PM
 
Location: Wherever life takes me.
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Glad you take that seriously. With all the pain stuff you are taking, you might have a retarded baby with 3 eyes and one leg.
I'm also smart enough that if I was pregnant I wouldn't have anything in my system.
The last thing I'd want to have to do is take care of a 3 eyed one legged baby... I'm already having a hard time because my life isn't "normal" enough as it is.

I feel like running away now....imagine how I'd feel then..
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Old 01-05-2016, 01:53 PM
 
Location: SoCal again
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I'm also smart enough that if I was pregnant I wouldn't have anything in my system.
The last thing I'd want to have to do is take care of a 3 eyed one legged baby... I'm already having a hard time because my life isn't "normal" enough as it is.

I feel like running away now....imagine how I'd feel then..



It takes a long time (months) to get all the toxins out when you stop.


I would get out of granny's house. Be glad it worked out for so long - it saved you a huge chunk of rent money.


Get your own place where you can do what you want and find peace. You might look back then and regret it but maybe that makes you appreciate your grandmothers generousity a bit more.


My bf has chronic pain from several accidents. He switches meds all the time or stops in between so he doesn't get addicted.
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Old 01-05-2016, 02:18 PM
 
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I'm also smart enough that if I was pregnant I wouldn't have anything in my system.
The last thing I'd want to have to do is take care of a 3 eyed one legged baby... I'm already having a hard time because my life isn't "normal" enough as it is.

I feel like running away now....imagine how I'd feel then..
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It takes a long time (months) to get all the toxins out when you stop.


I would get out of granny's house. Be glad it worked out for so long - it saved you a huge chunk of rent money.


Get your own place where you can do what you want and find peace. You might look back then and regret it but maybe that makes you appreciate your grandmothers generousity a bit more.


My bf has chronic pain from several accidents. He switches meds all the time or stops in between so he doesn't get addicted.
This is true. If you are not actively planning to have a baby, you probably won't be 'clean' when you conceive.
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Old 01-05-2016, 03:10 PM
 
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This is true. If you are not actively planning to have a baby, you probably won't be 'clean' when you conceive.
Which is why I am actively keeping up with my end of the not having a baby right now plan..
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Old 01-05-2016, 03:17 PM
 
Location: SoCal again
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okay, so we established that. So after 37 pages of talking about it .... what are you gonna do, move out?
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Old 01-05-2016, 03:35 PM
 
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okay, so we established that. So after 37 pages of talking about it .... what are you gonna do, move out?
Yes it was established in my original post that we're moving by spring.
I stated everything in that first post but people chose not to read it.
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Old 01-05-2016, 03:46 PM
 
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its like this OP


She who pays, plays
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Old 01-05-2016, 03:49 PM
 
Location: SoCal again
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Yes it was established in my original post that we're moving by spring.
I stated everything in that first post but people chose not to read it.
Shoot. ... I read it at least twice and must have forgotten. Aging sucks.
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