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Old 01-05-2016, 07:48 PM
 
Location: Wherever life takes me.
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Move. Out.

And completely support yourself.

But just FYI, there will most likely always be someone who can tell you what to do.
Not outside of a career, if I chose a career that suffocating.
Outside of a job who's going to tell me what to do?
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Old 01-05-2016, 07:52 PM
 
Location: Denver 'burbs
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Not outside of a career, if I chose a career that suffocating.
Please do tell what kind of career you plan, where no one can tell you what to do.

The other thing I'm wondering, is what is going on with the dogs you transport while you are off seeing the sights? Are they left in the car unattended?
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Old 01-05-2016, 07:59 PM
 
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People have to suck it up every.single.day and deal with FAR worse things than you have. Does the self-pity party never end for you?

You are not special. You will not be able to coast through life playing the poor me card. Get clean. Get a job. Get insurance. Grow up. Pay your own way. The taxpayers shouldn't get stuck paying for someone with a "disability" who is out seeing Rushmore, enjoying campfires on the beach and having the "time of her life" on our dime. It takes a lot of hutzpah to try and sell yourself as disabled when you are out enjoying yourself sight-seeing.
This, if you can travel and have sex you can work.

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Lol on YOUR dime?
That's hilarious. I've gotten to go all these places because of the job. The job pays for it.
The only reason we got to see Mt.Rushmore is because we were in the northwest and had to go to SD. We drove right past it. It would have been stupid to not stop, which we only did for like 30 minutes. We went and took pictures and left. Everything I've gotten to see has been because the job. My disability wouldn't pay for us to travel. It would pay for MY portion of our bills.
Yes, our dime. The American taxpayer foots the bill.

You're missing the point. You can sit in a vehicle for hours, you can travel, smoke, enjoy romantic activities with your boyfriend, you can work a job.

People who have much more disabling issues, who are in wheelchairs work, so can you.
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Old 01-05-2016, 07:59 PM
 
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Not outside of a career, if I chose a career that suffocating.
Outside of a job who's going to tell me what to do?

The social worker who handles your disability, Medicaid and food stamps benefits. The repo man. The credit collection agency. Your landlord.
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Old 01-05-2016, 08:01 PM
 
Location: The Greater Houston Metro Area
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Except I'm not a fat spoiled delusional little boy that wants people to respect my authority.
I don't want people to listen to me. I want them to simply not tell me what to do.

I'm shocked you didn't pick a mean girl.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hjCHD41I7ok


....and, yeah, spoiled and delusional fits in there.
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Old 01-05-2016, 08:08 PM
 
Location: here
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Lmao!
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Old 01-05-2016, 08:32 PM
 
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Not outside of a career, if I chose a career that suffocating.
What career?

You dropped out of junior college. You have no skills. You self medicate with pot and are dependent on opiates. (That's why you throw up every morning. You're in withdrawal and your body needs the Tramadol.) Your plan for survival is suing the seat belt manufacturer (even though the seat belt did it's job and saved your life) and trying to get disability because you are sometimes incontinent and you refuse to wear something that MILLIONS of Americans wear: Depends.

Get clean. Go back to school.
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Old 01-05-2016, 08:42 PM
 
Location: VA
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Not outside of a career, if I chose a career that suffocating.
Outside of a job who's going to tell me what to do?
Why do you keep coming back to this thread? It is obvious that most people are having a difficult time falling in line with your way of posting/thinking (I am not sure they are one and the same).

Why? You are not going to change my mind or anyone else's since your posts just keep getting stranger.

Or are you just hanging out at your computer laughing at how ticked off people are getting about your "story"?
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Old 01-05-2016, 08:58 PM
 
Location: Wherever life takes me.
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What career?

You dropped out of junior college. You have no skills. You self medicate with pot and are dependent on opiates. (That's why you throw up every morning. You're in withdrawal and your body needs the Tramadol.) Your plan for survival is suing the seat belt manufacturer (even though the seat belt did it's job and saved your life) and trying to get disability because you are sometimes incontinent and you refuse to wear something that MILLIONS of Americans wear: Depends.

Get clean. Go back to school.
Yeah my friend who also has spinal cord damage has to wear them when she goes places she can't immediately get to bathroom. She's also stated how she's had to change her entire wardrobe and can't wear anything cute anymore.

Yes it matters.
I spent all of middle and high school overweight.
I'm not now. It's not fair. I don't want to put on a pair of depends and have to put on pants that will hide them.
You can't wear leggings and depends.
Depends also means conservative clothing because that all that will hide them.
Loose fitting shorts, pants etc.

Seriously if the rest of my life is going to be this miserable then I'd like to be stuck dead already.
I didn't just spend majority of my like with image issues to finally be ok with myself and not be able to wear the clothes I waited so long to be able to fit into.

I rather just end it all than make those changes.
I don't want that life, it's not me, it's not who I am.
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Old 01-05-2016, 09:03 PM
 
Location: Wherever life takes me.
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I'm not dealing with my injuries very well.
Not accepting it. Don't want to.
I'm hoping for a second surgery to fix what the surgeon didn't and to take the metal out. The metal hurts my back so much it's not funny. I can feel it constantly.
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