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Old 01-03-2016, 08:59 AM
 
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Like when you have done everything to be a good friend and they just don't seem to care at all about you.
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Old 01-03-2016, 09:01 AM
 
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Because you've tried too hard, sorry to say. People are perverse that way. Friendships form naturally, not through effort. When you work too hard at it, it feels forced. Either that or they simply take you for granted.
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Old 01-03-2016, 09:23 AM
 
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Obsess much?
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Old 01-03-2016, 09:52 AM
 
Location: Prosper
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Please stop posting new threads about friendships.

Seriously.

Moderator cut: deleteI would seek counseling if I were you, and ask your therapist all these questions. You clearly have issues forming relationships with other people.

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Old 01-03-2016, 10:22 AM
 
Location: Maryland
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Like when you have done everything to be a good friend and they just don't seem to care at all about you.
If this is about who I think it's about, you need to let it go. Please take the time that you are spending on C-D talking about this guy and jump on Match.com. You will be too flooded with emails from better men to be pining over and wasting your life away on someone that has been very clear that they do not want to be friends or in a relationship.
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Old 01-03-2016, 10:35 AM
 
Location: In the desert, by the mirage.
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Please elaborate thanks!
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Old 01-03-2016, 10:44 AM
 
Location: southwestern PA
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Not everyone is friends with everyone else.
Personality clashes, lack of common interests, etc contribute.

If you are the one putting in all the effort, you need to let go and move on to find others who will reciprocate.
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Old 01-03-2016, 10:53 AM
 
Location: Leaving fabulous Las Vegas, Nevada
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Please stop posting new threads about friendships.

Seriously.

You long since passed the point of seeming like a creepy stalker type. I would seek counseling if I were you, and ask your therapist all these questions. You clearly have issues forming relationships with other people.
You do have a lot of these threads with little detail. Maybe talking with a counselor would be good for you.

Sorry you are so unhappy.
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Old 01-03-2016, 11:50 AM
 
Location: Maryland
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Please elaborate thanks!
Look to all the other recent posts started by the same OP for more info.
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Old 01-03-2016, 01:44 PM
 
Location: Middle of the valley
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