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society tells you something is wrong with this thinking.....theres not.
Yes, there is something wrong with this. Wanting so badly to fall in love and focus only on that one thing is not healthy at his age. The healthy thing is to be developing a sense of self and independence. This is not achieved by wanting only to fall in love and focus only on that.
You are waking to the possibility of things changing for the better permanently and it's within your grasp. I was in your shoes 40 years ago. If I had to do anything over, I'd have gone to counseling much sooner but the relief of being free was enough to feel like life was fine until my past caught up with me and it wasn't fine or at least I wasn't fine.
Don't put all of your confidence in relationships. You will need to gain strength, insight and confidence in yourself to be the best and most reliable friend/partner in any relationship.
Yes, there is something wrong with this. Wanting so badly to fall in love and focus only on that one thing is not healthy at his age. The healthy thing is to be developing a sense of self and independence. This is not achieved by wanting only to fall in love and focus only on that.
Yes, there is something wrong with this. Wanting so badly to fall in love and focus only on that one thing is not healthy at his age. The healthy thing is to be developing a sense of self and independence. This is not achieved by wanting only to fall in love and focus only on that.
Agree. It's understandable given what he's going through but it's not healthy.
Hang in there OP, focus on the things that you will need to do to live independently.
society tells you something is wrong with this thinking.....theres not.
I think he means in general, I agree at my point in time it's not exactly healthy but just in general there's nothing wrong with wanting to have a relationship.
If anyone still wonders about me anymore I have not taken the time to talk to my parents a whole lot and our relationship is getting worse and worse. I have a strong resent to them still and I never hold grudges but I'm still angry at them. I'm so lonely and I feel as if nobody cares for me anymore. I fell into the pressure of using marijuana. It takes my mind off my life and that's all I want at this point and time. Like I said before I just want someone to genuinely care about me I feel as if I'm a bad person with me smoking I don't know what I'm doing with my life anymore
If anyone still wonders about me anymore I have not taken the time to talk to my parents a whole lot and our relationship is getting worse and worse. I have a strong resent to them still and I never hold grudges but I'm still angry at them. I'm so lonely and I feel as if nobody cares for me anymore. I fell into the pressure of using marijuana. It takes my mind off my life and that's all I want at this point and time. Like I said before I just want someone to genuinely care about me I feel as if I'm a bad person with me smoking I don't know what I'm doing with my life anymore
You should not be doing anything illegal.
What are your your plans for when your become 18? That's what you should be focusing on. Have you talked to your school counselor?
Are you saving money?
Smoking weed when young is not good for your health. And I don't think smoking weed will help you find a caring person.
If anyone still wonders about me anymore I have not taken the time to talk to my parents a whole lot and our relationship is getting worse and worse. I have a strong resent to them still and I never hold grudges but I'm still angry at them. I'm so lonely and I feel as if nobody cares for me anymore. I fell into the pressure of using marijuana. It takes my mind off my life and that's all I want at this point and time. Like I said before I just want someone to genuinely care about me I feel as if I'm a bad person with me smoking I don't know what I'm doing with my life anymore
Hang in there and keep planning for what to do after you turn 18. It will be here before you know it.
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