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She's NOT a new mother. IT's nice to bring food to mothers I get it. If you enjoy that, great for you.
But why bash people who don't? It's my money and time, not yours. Why do you tell people what to do like that? Why are you so judgmental to people that choose not to do that? Does it bother you that childfree people don't gush over parents and their babies?
You didn't just say "it's not something we do around here." You said it is "too much." It's not. That's all. It might not be necessary, but it was just a suggestion someone made. Your response was over the top. That's all. If you aren't close and don't like her kids, then stop going over there. Seems like common sense to me.
When I nicely ask to cover the nudity many times over while I visit, and my request as a guest are ignored, there is no way in hell I am going to "bring over casseroles" or make meals for people like that. She doesn't care if I feel uncomfortable or disturbed. I"ll bring food to folks who are respectful to guests instead.
Don't you understand that not everyone is crazy about babies and motherhood? Some of us are nice to "friends" with children, and we can enjoy their kids for a little while. BUT WE DON'T WANT TO SEE NUDITY. THIS IS WHAT THIS THREAD IS ABOUT. BTW - kudos for bragging how other people paid for 2 weeks of food for you. I feel really bad.. -come on .... was the food from Delmonico's?
Is that the royal "we"? If you are a blue blood then I can see all your crazy rules.
Or, is it voices in your head? Getting crowded?
It has to be one of those because you are not speaking for me. Besides the autistic one, children that age are naked all the time.
Save yourself some angst, and just stop going over there, or call CPS.
Honestly, you do not sound like a nice person at all.
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So just a question for all the posters who are telling this woman to mind her own business and just not visit. Are you all ok with the fact that an 11 yr old special needs child is allowed to roam the neighborhood with no supervision? Naked or not that is a recipe for disaster.
She's NOT a new mother. IT's nice to bring food to mothers I get it. If you enjoy that, great for you.
But why bash people who don't? It's my money and time, not yours. Why do you tell people what to do like that? Why are you so judgmental to people that choose not to do that? Does it bother you that childfree people don't gush over parents and their babies?
So just a question for all the posters who are telling this woman to mind her own business and just not visit. Are you all ok with the fact that an 11 yr old special needs child is allowed to roam the neighborhood with no supervision? Naked or not that is a recipe for disaster.
Nope! Not if that's really what's going on here (we heard of one time this autistic child escaped his home).
Indeed, I (can only speak for myself here) said if she is THIS FRIGHTENED she should CALL THE AUTHORITIES, not tear this individual a new one anonymously on some internet message board.
I have said it before (several times, did you read the thread? And it wasn't just me) and I'll say it again: If I were literally afraid "pervs" were staring at these nude children and that a "perv" would come knocking on the door one day pretending to be a new neighbor so he could touch three naked children I would be calling the authorities. Period. Not charging around some internet forum demanding that people agree to my anger at this equally anonymous person (who is not here to defend herself, BTW). I'd be doing something if I were actually afraid rather than simply getting off tearing someone apart verbally behind the cloak of anonymity.
So just a question for all the posters who are telling this woman to mind her own business and just not visit. Are you all ok with the fact that an 11 yr old special needs child is allowed to roam the neighborhood with no supervision? Naked or not that is a recipe for disaster.
Of course not. But is that the case? The woman just says "bye!! come home before the lights come on." to her naked kid?
I'm guessing it is a highly autistic child that escapes with no clothes on. Maybe the OP can give us a link to the news story? Obviously it wasn't some huge expose (see what I did? ) on the family or action would have been taken already.
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So just a question for all the posters who are telling this woman to mind her own business and just not visit. Are you all ok with the fact that an 11 yr old special needs child is allowed to roam the neighborhood with no supervision? Naked or not that is a recipe for disaster.
No, I'm not, but I don't think that's what's happening. Hard to tell, though. First he was escaping and going naked to neighbor's houses, then the mom was "fine," not overwhelmed, makes plenty of money and has all the services she needs.
Clearly the OP is not concerned about the kids. She is concerned about her own comfort level only. That's why I resorted to "just don't go."
I guess I'm being super cautious because we recently had a special needs child drown in a neighbors pool. He was known to wonder out of his yard and this time for whatever reason he ended up in someone's pool.
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-come on ....
was the food from Delmonico's?
) on the family or action would have been taken already.