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is looking at someone's Facebook page a few times really stalking? I think you're being a bit over dramatic here.
Clearly people here hate me and are going to find anything I do a problem.
IF we hated you, we'd have more reason to dislike you, than YOU have to dislike your brothers girlfriend.
Do you not get how insane it sounds to hate a woman because she has the bad taste to date your brother?? And because she is crazy enough to let YOUR brother around her kids, but you let him around yours?
I'm beginning to wonder which sibling is on drugs.
'Stalking' and being nosey are too different things. Stalking is being used way too casually these days, same as hater and creeper.
Checking out someone's FB page a couple of times is far from stalking ... People need to calm down.
Well, I would agree that "Facebook stalking" and actual "stalking" are different things. But what she is doing is commonly referred to as "FB stalking". Perhaps the common terminology is an inaccurate usage of the word stalking. But she's not just "checking out" the girlfriend's page. She's trying to gain info on the girlfriend (on more than one occasion) for the purpose of justifying her hatred of her.
I'm also feeling hate towards her because i dont want the house we go to on weekends to be cramped with her and her kids. She is simply a pain in the ass.
I'm also feeling hate towards her because i dont want the house we go to on weekends to be cramped with her and her kids. She is simply a pain in the ass.
Oh, boy ... Getting my Sno-Caps for this one. LOL!
Good thing she doesn't have a dog that needs to be kicked.
I'm also feeling hate towards her because i dont want the house we go to on weekends to be cramped with her and her kids. She is simply a pain in the ass.
And there it is, she's a threat to your beach house space.
[quote=Whatsnext75;45189263]I'm also feeling hate towards her because i dont want the house we go to on weekends to be cramped with her and her kids. She is simply a pain in the ass.[/QUOTE
I would be a junkie too, if my sister was as miserable and selfish as you are. Karma is going to bite you in the a$$.
In some ways I kinda sorta almost agree with you. I have two kids but that doesn't mean I like all kids and want to be around them. If I'm trying to relax somewhere, I definitely don't want to deal with toddlers that are not mine and I have no relationship with (especially for more than a day).
I know it is hard to like the girlfriend and you don't have to. I have some relatives that have married into our family that we don't like. You just have to tolerate them when there is a family function and then do what we do when they leave -- talk crap about them!
If you are not into your brothers choice of a GF and the kids that go along with that, tell your parents you do not wish to be around them when they are invited over. End of story and let it go. You can not choose the people that your brother wants to be around any more than he can choose the people you want to be around. If it is that uncomfortable for you to be around them then make the choice to leave when they come over.
I see so many people that make it a point to get into someone else's life and can only figure that maybe they do not have a life and need to borrow someone else's life. Family is a big one. Someone disagrees with the choices of a brother or sister and makes it their life work to change that person. Let people live their own life. No need to have to support them in any way. No need to have them be a part of your life if you do not agree with them. Just let it go and enjoy your life.
If other family members support them then that is their choice. They are adults I would guess and can make the choice to do what they want. If family members agree with you then that is also a choice. No issues with how someone chooses to act toward another family member. These are all adults and can choose for themselves how they want to act.
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