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I agree with everybody else here, and to surprise him with something like that is a bad idea. He was not trying to contact his son, and his son was probably not trying to find him either. He probably have already accepted another man, who was in his life as his father.
That is a too emotional of a issue to surprise somebody with, you don't know how each of them will react. The son will probably hang up on you anyway, after all these years. I wouldn't touch this one, let your husband take the lead on that matter. You can probably talk to him about the idea of contacting his son in the future, but I wouldn't do anymore than that.
I agree with everybody else here, and to surprise him with something like that is a bad idea. He was not trying to contact his son, and his son was probably not trying to find him either. He probably have already accepted another man, who was in his life as his father.
That is a too emotional of a issue to surprise somebody with, you don't know how each of them will react. The son will probably hang up on you anyway, after all these years. I wouldn't touch this one, let your husband take the lead on that matter. You can probably talk to him about the idea of contacting his son in the future, but I wouldn't do anymore than that.
Yap he did. He actually was adopted by the 2nd husband oh they are divorced now. But his son's last name is the 2nd husband's. Tragic.
Like I said already ask him about it. Not gonna do it in the very near future though.
Not that I know of. He was unemployed when they divorced which I was told by his sister was nasty. And the son was adopted by the 2nd husband.
Nasty divorce nor unemployment should have stopped him from seeing his son or paying support yet in 2 threads you are blaming & stalking the woman who raised this kid with NADA from YOUR husband.
Speaks volumes.
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