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OP boinks friend's bf
Friend now ex-friend (understandable, because of the boinking)
Ex-friend thinks OP is a bad person
Op thinks the fact that she boinked the ex-friend's bf is irrelevant to the fact that ex-friend thinks OP is a bad person
OP wants to tell ex-friend how to live her life
Have I got all this right?
My guess is that ex-friend thinks the best way to live her life would be to have no "friends" that would boink her bf - but that's just me.
actually we used to argue over who "Got" to check the Sheriffs website on Monday mornings to see who wouldn't be at work that week. HAHA The company I worked at used to hire a lot of recent parolees who lived at a halfway house not too far from the plant. The plant manager would work with these guys to get them back on their feet - give them a second chance and many did well - and were hired on as permanent employees. Others not so well. He asked me and another girl in the office to check on Monday morning so he could schedule areas - straightforward he knew there would be times that there was someone on the site. the funniest time was when we found our former Employment agency manager on it - for his 3rd DUI... And he looked trashed. we found out several months later it was actually his 5th DUI - others had been across the state line in another state. We had suspected for awhile that he was drinking before he'd come in to see the HR manager and we referred to him as "Drunk Stuart".... we were right!
It's very relevant. That's why you feel the way you do presently.
Are you're trying to boost yourself up by trying to say Hey, I wasn't so the "bad guy" because I tried to warn her? I mean, if you want to talk about irrelevant...
There comes a point when you've got to let go and move on.
There are a few posters on here who post all their business, than you bring up something they said in another you get "that's not relevant", when it is. Because it's connected to what they're currently talking about and their views were shaped.
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Just making sure I have everything straight:
OP boinks friend's bf
Friend now ex-friend (understandable, because of the boinking)
Ex-friend thinks OP is a bad person
Op thinks the fact that she boinked the ex-friend's bf is irrelevant to the fact that ex-friend thinks OP is a bad person
OP wants to tell ex-friend how to live her life
Have I got all this right?
My guess is that ex-friend thinks the best way to live her life would be to have no "friends" that would boink her bf - but that's just me.
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Originally Posted by cheryjohns
Just making sure I have everything straight:
OP boinks friend's bf
Friend now ex-friend (understandable, because of the boinking)
Ex-friend thinks OP is a bad person
Op thinks the fact that she boinked the ex-friend's bf is irrelevant to the fact that ex-friend thinks OP is a bad person
OP wants to tell ex-friend how to live her life
Have I got all this right?
My guess is that ex-friend thinks the best way to live her life would be to have no "friends" that would boink her bf - but that's just me.
I'm talking about 3 people. They're all ex-friends. And by the way, you forgot to include the ex-friend's sister who I also used to be friends with also. The ex-friend's sister is a drug addict, she was clean that I knew of when seeing her at this tournament we belonged to. Then poop hit the fan when my ex-friend 's tried to make things work with her ex-boyfriend. When that fell through, he stuck around. Not sure if he still is. Last time I saw him about a year ago, he seemed high on something. He was a drug addict as well. We were all part of the same tournament.
And posting my personal business here is a way for me to cope with life.
OMG dear one. Stop running on that rodent wheel and find a more constructive way to spend your time. Being with terribly flawed people is not the answer. Sleeping with a friends SO is not the answer. I can see that you have some difficulties to over come. Start with baby steps and eliminating people that are dysfunctional. They're a bad influence for someone who has a hard time finding a path to being a better person. You can be whoever you want to be. Just choose it.
I'm talking about 3 people. They're all ex-friends. And by the way, you forgot to include the ex-friend's sister who I also used to be friends with also. The ex-friend's sister is a drug addict, she was clean that I knew of when seeing her at this tournament we belonged to. Then poop hit the fan when my ex-friend 's tried to make things work with her ex-boyfriend. When that fell through, he stuck around. Not sure if he still is. Last time I saw him about a year ago, he seemed high on something. He was a drug addict as well. We were all part of the same tournament.
And posting my personal business here is a way for me to cope with life.
By posting this you are making yourself look even worse.
No!
Clearly, the relationship was with somebody's finances.
See below for confirmation from the OP:
Then it is the wrong forum. Maybe she gets more patience in the finance subforum where more people discuss finances and ex finances.
Sorry, couldn't resist.
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