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Old 04-28-2017, 09:27 PM
 
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What does "this side of abuse" mean? One is either abused or not. Does it mean jealous grandma does not like the fiancé' (competition)? The fact that you refer to the woman as "this thing" is very revealing. The fact that the law will not get involved is also revealing. . . they are eager to "help" always. . .
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Old 04-28-2017, 10:20 PM
 
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Grandma says her daughter in law is mean, but not to the point of being abusive to the granddaughter; she gives no support to that statement. A half dozen people chime in here to contact CPS and claim child abuse is taking place. When are people going to wise up to the fact that complaints don't equal problems and stop being so accepting of whatever an OP claims?
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Old 04-28-2017, 10:42 PM
 
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I could be a jerk to my stepson without being subject to action by CPS. That doesn't mean I am good for him, or not abusive. Still, I would want to know what the OP means, and what the mother thinks about it.
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Old 04-30-2017, 03:53 PM
 
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Call CPS on her but only if you have solid proof.
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Old 05-01-2017, 12:30 PM
 
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I have an adult son who refuses to hear me out about how his fiance treats his 3 yr old daughter... he doesn't see it so it can't be true.
She is mean to her, just this side of abusive, the law refuses to do anything about it.
He got engaged to this thing called a woman when she got pregnant now he has this second child she treats like glass... please help, any suggestions?
How does the law refuse to do anything? Have complaints been filed and investigations done? If you call CPS and make a complaint they have to come out and investigate it
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Old 05-01-2017, 01:49 PM
 
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How does the law refuse to do anything? Have complaints been filed and investigations done? If you call CPS and make a complaint they have to come out and investigate it
Maybe she means CPS investigated and found no abuse.
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Old 05-12-2017, 06:55 PM
 
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she has never neglected her in a way or abused her in the yes of the law, i already went that route. It's just a feeling I get that something isnt quite right
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Old 05-12-2017, 06:56 PM
 
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CPS has come and cjecked itout
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Old 05-12-2017, 09:00 PM
 
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CPS has come and cjecked itout
So you already called CPS on her. You don't think she(they) can figure out who reported it?

I have to laugh at the word "fiance", they already have a kid together.

Your son is now father to two children with two different women, neither one he is married to. See a pattern here?

Perhaps you should have a chat with him about not continuing to make babies.
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Old 05-12-2017, 09:25 PM
 
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she has never neglected her in a way or abused her in the yes of the law, i already went that route. It's just a feeling I get that something isnt quite right

You called CPS because of a feeling?
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