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Old 05-01-2017, 01:40 PM
 
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Just block him already. Block him on Facebook, block from calling you or texting you. When going from one point to another at school take alternate routes. If he persists then say "well, I really do NOT want to have to resort to this, but you are leaving me with no choice but to contact the authorities. What you are doing is harassment". For what it is worth, there will actually come a time when you won't have to worry about this. You will get older and all the men will turn into Helen Keller. So, as nutty as this sounds, enjoy this while it lasts. And by that, I mean enjoy the attention, not the stalker like behavior. But, seriously, don't let this get anymore out of hand than it already is.
Hehehe. I guess 50 is the limit huh?

That is one thing that bugs me. If I was 60 years old, he would not bother. All because of a pretty young face. Like there isn't more to a person.
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Old 05-01-2017, 02:21 PM
 
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Hehehe. I guess 50 is the limit huh?

That is one thing that bugs me. If I was 60 years old, he would not bother. All because of a pretty young face. Like there isn't more to a person.
If you don't mind me asking, are you 50?
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Old 05-01-2017, 02:27 PM
 
Location: Saint John, IN
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Yes, I got it. He mistakes my niceness and politeness for interest.

Being nice is good to a point. Sometimes you have to NOT be so nice!
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Old 05-01-2017, 08:04 PM
 
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Seriously, this is a no-brainer.

Block him on your phone, kick him off your Fakebook "friends" list, YES, tell him flat out you are never going to go out with him - and DO NOT APOLOGIZE. Just be firm and then walk away and do not stop if you see him on the street walking around. He's a stalker. Don't talk to him or even give him the time of day. He sees your attempts to be polite as encouragement. He thinks every woman wants him, I'm sure, and I'll bet "no" doesn't mean "no" in his lexicon either. Clearly it does not because you have repeatedly told him no and he's still there, isn't he?

Block him, boot him, have nothing further to do with him.
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Old 05-01-2017, 08:58 PM
 
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Sounds like you secretly love the attention or else this would have easily been dealt with in a matter of days by blocking all contact with him.
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Old 05-01-2017, 10:58 PM
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Like others have said, block him on FB, ignore his calls and texts, ignore him if you see him at school. If he corners you, tell him you have somewhere to be and leave. If he doesn't let you leave, call 911. Then put a restraining order on him. Don't take this type of obsessive behavior lightly and DO SOMETHING ABOUT it other than complaining about it here!
It's time to act....Decisively!!!
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Old 05-02-2017, 06:12 AM
 
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sounds like you secretly love the attention or else this would have easily been dealt with in a matter of days by blocking all contact with him.
This right here sums it all up perfectly!
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