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Old 05-26-2017, 09:13 PM
 
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The chatty hen was in reference to the OP. Didnt realize you were a woman.
The name Phonelady didn't tip you off?
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Old 05-26-2017, 09:35 PM
 
Location: Silicon Valley
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Wow. Such venom.

The wrongs the OP mentions as being horrible are 1) student loans. Who doesn't have student loans? Yeesh. End of the world, he married a woman who went to college. Trying to see the evil in this....nope.

2) she starts businesses and tries hard to make them work, including asking for the support of their family. And the family turns it's nose up at her efforts completely. Is she evil in this? Me thinks not.

And, her husband goes and complains about their personal business to his catty sister, who goes online and spews venom about how he should divorce this woman.

And when you didn't get the response you expected, you interjected that there are way worse things the SIL has done. But, I have to look at the list of things you thought were so horrible, you thought we here on CD would get on board with what a horrible woman she is, getting your brother in such debt. And your examples were - of the most horrible things you could think of - having student loans, and trying a business selling stuff.

Now, if you had said, maybe, that she was having tons of affairs or had a heroin addiction and was inviting murderers into the house....

I don't know. But, I think you are way too much into your brother's business, and the end of their marriage may be due to your unhealthy relationship with him and your interference.

The fact that she's ready to leave him doesn't surprise me. It's his job to attend to his marriage and his wife, and not go running to you to get involved. I can't imagine how she has put up with the type of venom you are spewing here. Leaving your brother will probably make her happier.
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Old 05-27-2017, 06:09 AM
 
Location: South Carolina
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Wow. Such venom.

The wrongs the OP mentions as being horrible are 1) student loans. Who doesn't have student loans? Yeesh. End of the world, he married a woman who went to college. Trying to see the evil in this....nope.

2) she starts businesses and tries hard to make them work, including asking for the support of their family. And the family turns it's nose up at her efforts completely. Is she evil in this? Me thinks not.

And, her husband goes and complains about their personal business to his catty sister, who goes online and spews venom about how he should divorce this woman.

And when you didn't get the response you expected, you interjected that there are way worse things the SIL has done. But, I have to look at the list of things you thought were so horrible, you thought we here on CD would get on board with what a horrible woman she is, getting your brother in such debt. And your examples were - of the most horrible things you could think of - having student loans, and trying a business selling stuff.

Now, if you had said, maybe, that she was having tons of affairs or had a heroin addiction and was inviting murderers into the house....

I don't know. But, I think you are way too much into your brother's business, and the end of their marriage may be due to your unhealthy relationship with him and your interference.

The fact that she's ready to leave him doesn't surprise me. It's his job to attend to his marriage and his wife, and not go running to you to get involved. I can't imagine how she has put up with the type of venom you are spewing here. Leaving your brother will probably make her happier.

And him as well and talk about venom seems you have your share too ...thanks
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