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Old 06-28-2017, 09:31 PM
 
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Yeah I think that's the plan. I was thinking of calling her city police and asking them to do a wellness check. If she doesn't want to be friends that's fine. I just want to make sure she's ok.
Does she have other friends who might be trying to reach her, or was she more of a loner?

 
Old 06-28-2017, 09:32 PM
 
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Yeah I think that's the plan. I was thinking of calling her city police and asking them to do a wellness check. If she doesn't want to be friends that's fine. I just want to make sure she's ok.
She has a few other friends but I don't know them. I wish I knew her best friend name.
 
Old 06-28-2017, 09:36 PM
 
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She has a few other friends but I don't know them. I wish I knew her best friend name.
I think you have sufficient contacts to check. I was wondering if she had other friends, because I suspect you're not the only one who's tried to contact her, asking "are you ok", and that someone removed her profile because there were too many messages coming in, asking questions. Whoever it was didn't remove the profiles because of you, I don't think. It was to prevent more messages from coming in, IMO. And perhaps to prevent anyone from responding to those messages.

Worrisome.
 
Old 06-28-2017, 09:37 PM
 
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OK, OP, I think we're more or less agreed on a plan?

1. Message the sister to ask if she's heard from her sister recently.
2. Call her work general number/receptionist tomorrow.

If the news is negative (no show, no communications since last week), report a missing person.


Thx for your input, seain.
You're welcome.

Sounds like a good plan.
 
Old 06-28-2017, 09:38 PM
 
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I think you have sufficient contacts to check. I was wondering if she had other friends, because I suspect you're not the only one who's tried to contact her, asking "are you ok", and that someone removed her profile because there were too many messages coming in, asking questions. Whoever it was didn't remove the profiles because of you, I don't think. It was to prevent more messages from coming in, IMO. And perhaps to prevent anyone from responding to those messages.

Worrisome.
Now I'm freaking out.
 
Old 06-28-2017, 09:39 PM
 
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I think you have sufficient contacts to check. I was wondering if she had other friends, because I suspect you're not the only one who's tried to contact her, asking "are you ok", and that someone removed her profile because there were too many messages coming in, asking questions. Whoever it was didn't remove the profiles because of you, I don't think. It was to prevent more messages from coming in, IMO. And perhaps to prevent anyone from responding to those messages.

Worrisome.
Good point.
 
Old 06-28-2017, 09:41 PM
 
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What a ridiculous comment.

How do people become close friends? No one is given at birth a set of close friends...sigh.
Fine to disagree, but insults aren't necessary.

She stated their friendship was a professional one and continued only through social media and text messages. Not, in my opinion, a close friendship.

The stalking behaviors are concerning to me.

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Old 06-28-2017, 09:42 PM
 
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Now I'm freaking out.
You could call the police where they live and ask for a wellness check, explain everything you said here. Ask that the police call you back with a status if you feel you can't wait till morning.
 
Old 06-28-2017, 09:42 PM
 
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Fine to disagree, but insults aren't necessary.

She stated their friendship was a professional one and continued only throughs social media and text messages. Not, in my opinion, a close friendship.

The stalking behaviors are concerning to me.
Lol wow. Do you need a hug? You seem pretty removed.

Have you had a friend go missing and end up murdered? I have.
 
Old 06-28-2017, 09:46 PM
 
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Now I'm freaking out.
Well, that's the first thing I thought of. If someone wanted to unfriend you, they wouldn't remove their entire profile. They'd block you. In this case, not only did the profile disappear, the husband's profile did, too.

Be sure to tell police that, as well; that the husband's profile was also removed.
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