Grandmother calling my fiance by my ex's name constantly

[Sassybluesy]

OK, looking at the situation with fresh(er) eyes, I see that OP DID say she wasn't sure if grandma was doing this intentionally or not.


But IMO, it doesn't matter. Like I said earlier, and others have said...WHATEVER is going on with grandma, it's not a reflection on OP.


If it were me, the ONLY thing I would do is make sure the fiancé is aware of the situation, and then...that's it. The past is in the past, and grandma isn't going to have a lot to do with your married life anyway.

[Luckystrike1]

If she does this in a group setting (wedding):

"You just called him ----- again, grandma. You do this all the time and it is NOT a good sign. You need to see the doctor, you really do."