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Old 03-05-2018, 12:10 PM
 
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We had used a contractor for some work around the house. He is well known in our area and has signs and jobs everywhere. The work was okay, not stellar, not bad, and we have some more to do so we were going to invite him to bid as well as a few others that we identified.

We were in the local hardware big box store a few weeks ago and spotted him in the lumber section. He was livid, lambasting an employee with all manner of insults both personal and racist. The employee seemed understandably flustered. The contractor was bright red, veins sticking out, furious. I have no idea what the problem was as we took our leave of that part of the store quickly.

I have taken him off of my list of bidders as his entire demeanor was totally unprofessional at the store. A friend had him bidding for some work for her and I told her the story. She didn't seem phased and says its all about his bottom line. For me, he seems to have some anger issues and I don't want to potentially deal with that, and what he said to the employee was ugly and inexcusable. There are other fish in the sea as they say.

Would you hire someone like this? Would their public racist rant bother you?
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Old 03-05-2018, 12:14 PM
 
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I wouldn't hire him and yes his rant would bother me. Racist or not I see no reason to act like an obnoxious a** in public.
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Old 03-05-2018, 12:15 PM
 
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Definitely, I would take them off my list too.
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Old 03-05-2018, 12:22 PM
 
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Had I witnessed that, off the list he would go.

Anger. Racism. A complete freaking jerk to an employee of the store. I wouldn't help him with his "bottom line" any further.

A big ol' NOPE.
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Old 03-05-2018, 12:22 PM
 
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Depends on the quality of work.

I honestly don't care about a persons beliefs if they're good at the job I want to hire them for.
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Old 03-05-2018, 12:26 PM
 
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It would be politically incorrect to hire a racist. Perhaps this topic would be better categorized under work and employment.
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Old 03-05-2018, 12:36 PM
 
Location: Northern Virginia
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Nope, he'd be off the list. The anger and lack of ability to control it in a public place (racist or not) would be reason enough for me. I wouldn't want someone who could go off like that in my home.
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Old 03-05-2018, 12:38 PM
 
Location: Texas
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I wouldn't hire an independent contractor to do work on my home or yard, period. Whether he was racist or not.
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Old 03-05-2018, 12:49 PM
 
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I care only about the work quality and bottom line. I'm not going to marry this guy, he is only going to build me a balcony.
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Old 03-05-2018, 12:49 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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This sounds like the kind of person who toadies to employers, but is a completely different person behind their back. Been there, seen that. Such a person can be unpredictable. I had a contractor doing work while I was away, and a friend was staying at my place. The friend said contractor and crew were rude, almost hostile, for no particular reason. I wouldn't hire someone like that again. You have choices, OP. You shouldn't feel badly about exercising them.
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