Quote:
Originally Posted by treemoni
Yeah, I was thinking the same thing. You're "sexually aggressive" because you were hurt that a friend refused your hug? Just...wow.
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He was hurt?
His exact words were, "I was pissed"
He felt he was OWED.
He then told his friend to "never do that again"
He called his declining him "a stunt"
He mentioned this FRIEND even needs to apologize to HIM for declining him.
How sick and twisted is this
http://www.city-data.com/forum/51959371-post1.html
NO means NO.
In this case it was done with a partial smile and an offer to hang out afterwards.
Very graciously done in love
No reason to badger someone again for a hug
after being lovingly told no
Absolutely No reason to get pissed off
Then tell him what he did by declining your hug was BOGUS
It was not BOGUS, it is his right to say no!
No matter how many times hugs are demanded, we cannot give in due to blackmail so someone won't get pissed and order us to never assert our rights again to decline hugs repeatedly or label our NO as BOGUS
No means NO. He was quite clear and very loving when he gave his no
Do not keep pushing your body, your will, onto another person when they say no
Their NO is NOT BOGUS.
What
is BOGUS IS the OP's pissed off attitude & demand of his friend "they never do that again"
Our bodies belong to us, no one else no matter how much they demand it
THE OP is BEING SEXUALLY AGGRESSIVE, shame on him.
He needs to apologize to this "friend".
This same so called friend
he used his body as a rag doll for one of his flings....
so now suddenly feels owns his friends body.... so much he demands repeatedly he hug him, or experience his wrath of being pissed and call his declining him, his no, BOGUS. As if saying no nicely is some sort of offense
Sorry but he did not want to press his body against yours.
This is of a depraved minded to feel this is OWED to them.
Shame on
you for supporting this behavior by twisting
my post
AND the OP's post. Just....Wow is right