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Old 01-24-2019, 01:28 AM
 
Location: PRC
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I'm with River City Rocky in post #24 - I think she/he might be after a 3-some or maybe they have an open marriage? Either way, if money is involved in your business relationship, tread very carefully.

 
Old 01-24-2019, 06:56 AM
 
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P.S. I was called to do a massage once, at a guy's house, who was married to a Brazilian woman.

This is the interesting read in this thread. R4T, I'd always guessed you had some kind of university job. Did you pick up a massage therapist license along the way?


Going back on-topic:
I presume the husband is in the room when this on-the-lips kiss is happening?


It sounds to me like this woman is attention-starved. I agree with the advice to just duck the kiss in the future.
 
Old 01-24-2019, 08:22 AM
 
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Hmmm. Exactly what is the problem here?
+1.

OP - are you concerned that you will be tempted to try to get her into bed or something?
 
Old 01-24-2019, 09:46 AM
 
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Hmmm. Exactly what is the problem here?
Cooties.
 
Old 01-24-2019, 09:51 AM
 
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You got yourself a winning business partner here - think money, amigo, and hasten slowly....whatever you do, do not offend his hot wife because she could shove a knife right into your wallet. Keep a sense of proportion. This is a fleeting kiss you do not want, it is not a wild crotch grab turning your gonads to hot lava.
I'm glad you picked up on this. It's in my best interest, especially my wallet, to not upset anyone here.
 
Old 01-24-2019, 09:52 AM
 
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A significant missing fact: How does her husband react to her kissing you on the mouth? No unusual reaction, or is he hanging up your coat when this occurs? If he sees this and is giving it a pass with no comment, his feelings may be very far removed from your fidgetiness about it.

Consider this possibility: She is on to this as her thing. If you do something unusual next time, like turning your face away so she plants a smacker on your cheek, what is her reaction going to be? How will she react?
Is she going to find your conduct insulting? And how will she convey her feelings to her husband?

I had a similar thing occur many years ago. The woman slathered her lips with saliva and then kissed me on the mouth. I jerked back, and she wailed "Why did you do thaaaaaaaaat!!!!!" Very uncomfortable scene followed.

Now imagine that this is how your partner's wife reacts. Bad news.

You got yourself a winning business partner here - think money, amigo, and hasten slowly....whatever you do, do not offend his hot wife because she could shove a knife right into your wallet. Keep a sense of proportion. This is a fleeting kiss you do not want, it is not a wild crotch grab turning your gonads to hot lava.
So-o-o you're suggesting the OP literally "kiss up" to the wife, for his career's sake? What if she decides to take to "the next level" (wink, wink)? He should go along with it, for his career's sake? Sleep his way to the top?

Seriously?

Of course she'll find his dodge off-putting. The point is to send her a message that she's being inappropriate. If that causes the OP's budding business empire to crash (ridiculous. You're catastrophizing), maybe he doesn't want to be in business with a guy dumb enough to listen to a wife who gets off on imposing herself on her husband's business contacts.

 
Old 01-24-2019, 09:52 AM
 
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Exactly how close are you to your friend and is it close enough to give up a potentially wild times with this "hot -15 years younger" new and better friend?
I don't think so, but he is a good buddy now. Success tends to bring people closer.
 
Old 01-24-2019, 09:55 AM
 
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I don't think so, but he is a good buddy now. Success tends to bring people closer.
So, you're saying, that success leads to threesomes? Or to cuckold scenarios?

Get a grip.
 
Old 01-24-2019, 09:55 AM
 
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Oh, and more info. The husband has been around when it happened.

He even commented "Wow, sometimes I don't even get that!" (meaning the kiss on the lips)

He didn't seem pissed but he did notice. That kiss happened last Saturday, the last time I saw him and his wife together. That's why it was on my mind.
 
Old 01-24-2019, 09:56 AM
 
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So, you're saying, that success leads to threesomes? Or to cuckold scenarios?

Get a grip.
Whoa. What?

That's not what I was talking about at all.
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