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Old 01-24-2019, 09:57 AM
 
Location: State of Transition
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Oh, and more info. The husband has been around when it happened.

He even commented "Wow, sometimes I don't even get that!" (meaning the kiss on the lips)

He didn't seem pissed but he did notice. That kiss happened last Saturday, the last time I saw him and his wife together. That's why it was on my mind.
What if this has the opposite effect a certain poster is suggesting (i.e. kissing up to the wife is a good thing for your business interests)? What if he dumps you? What if they had a huge fight after you left?

I repeat: get a grip. Just dodge the kiss next time, and don't worry about it.

 
Old 01-24-2019, 10:00 AM
 
Location: State of Transition
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Whoa. What?

That's not what I was talking about at all.
I was following up on this post, that you responded to with your "success brings people closer" comment.

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Exactly how close are you to your friend and is it close enough to give up a potentially wild times with this "hot -15 years younger" new and better friend?
OP, this isn't some huge dilemma. Go with your gut, and dodge the kiss, while saying something like "It's nice to see you again, (name of babe)". Don't let a hot corporate wife with boundary issues hold you hostage out of career concerns.
 
Old 01-24-2019, 10:03 AM
 
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It's in my best interest, especially my wallet, to not upset anyone here.
Then I think you shouldn't attempt to change anything.

While I do think it's strange, some people are completely overreacting about this. It's not really a big deal.
 
Old 01-24-2019, 10:16 AM
 
Location: Pikeville, Ky.
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