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Originally Posted by charolastra00
I live in Boston and have been to many reform and conservative (the latter being my family) Jewish funerals. Head coverings for women would be completely foreign to me.
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Grew up in NY, lived in Boston for almost 25 years and now in Denver for 10+ years. Reform, although have attended some Conservative funerals as well. No head coverings for women in any of those locations.
As for giving a cash gift to the deceased's family, I am sure that in some situations, it is very welcome (and sadly necessary). However, I think it would be inappropriate coming from a business connection vs. a family member or close friend. A charitable contribution is better in those circumstances.
They may name a preferred charity in the death notice, otherwise, if there is a cause you are aware the husband/family supported, that would be fine too.