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Old 02-26-2019, 08:19 PM
 
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Hey guys,

Won’t go into specifics on what was said to me on the message I received. My ex fiancé Decided she wanted to cancel our wedding instead of postponing it and she’s been slandering my name to make it look like I was the bad person here that caused all of this. I didn’t expect such a distasteful and inhumane message from my ex-sister in law which looked like a whole book she wrote to me full of bitterness and resentment. I was the bigger person and didn’t respond to her filth because I knew that was the best thing to do. Is there anything I can do here? She really disrespected me and wrote a whole bunch of crap and lies to make me look I’m the pos here. Showed their mother this and she said that’s between us smh. Should I really leave this alone? Would public shaming or notifiying her employer be too much?
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Old 02-26-2019, 08:21 PM
 
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Should I really leave this alone?
oh yeah.
Would public shaming or notifiying her employer be too much?
oh yeah.
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Old 02-26-2019, 08:22 PM
 
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No one cares... Ignore it or sue her for deflamation
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Old 02-26-2019, 08:24 PM
 
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All they're doing is giving you a reason not to fool with any of them anymore.

Just block them and don't talk to them.

Problem solved.

Silence, is the BEST weapon in situations like this. Let them make asses out of themselves, they'll get tired of talking to themselves after a while. If you really want to tick them off, live your best life and don't even acknowledge them ever again.
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Old 02-26-2019, 08:26 PM
 
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Originally Posted by Auraliea View Post
All they're doing is giving you a reason not to fool with any of them anymore.

Just block them and don't talk to them.

Problem solved.

Silence, is the BEST weapon in situations like this. Let them make asses out of themselves, they'll get tired of talking to themselves after a while. If you really want to tick them off, live your best life and don't even acknowledge them ever again.


Thanks man. My whole family said it’s great that I didn’t respond and took the higher road because she made her self look like an ass. She’ll look back with regrets.
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Old 02-26-2019, 08:28 PM
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Location: Pacific Northwest
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Hey guys,

Won’t go into specifics on what was said to me on the message I received. My ex fiancé Decided she wanted to cancel our wedding instead of postponing it and she’s been slandering my name to make it look like I was the bad person here that caused all of this. I didn’t expect such a distasteful and inhumane message from my ex-sister in law which looked like a whole book she wrote to me full of bitterness and resentment. I was the bigger person and didn’t respond to her filth because I knew that was the best thing to do. Is there anything I can do here? She really disrespected me and wrote a whole bunch of crap and lies to make me look I’m the pos here. Showed their mother this and she said that’s between us smh. Should I really leave this alone? Would public shaming or notifiying her employer be too much?
Yes, leave it alone. Don't contact her employer either. There's no need to jump in the muck and lower yourself to her level.

The truth will eventually come out, and when it does, you'll look and feel better for taking the high road in this situation.
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Old 02-26-2019, 08:38 PM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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Block and move on.
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Old 02-26-2019, 08:40 PM
 
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Notifying her employer??

Please ... no.

Delete it, and move forward.
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Old 02-26-2019, 08:46 PM
 
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So the Facebook messages written against you were on display for public viewing?

If so, you can just click on 'hide from message wall' or 'hide message' so that people cannot see the message(s) nor read them.
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Old 02-26-2019, 08:47 PM
 
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So the messages against you were on display for public viewing?

If so, you can just click on 'hide from message wall' or 'hide message' so that people cannot see it nor read it.

No private message.
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