My good friend from HS blocked me from finding her on FB (spouse, siblings)
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She also is completely fake now. Fake nose, fake teeth, boob job, used to have a healthy figure now looks too skinny. My friend ran into her and said she seemed like a Stepford Wife.
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Originally Posted by Forever Blue
Firstly, I don't know why some people think you are "trash-talking" her. I don't see that at all. Can't someone start a thread & ask a few questions about someone? Sheesh!
OP is absolutely trash talking her former friend. Not just asking "a few questions" -- rather, saying she is completely fake, and reporting someone else's trash talking = trash talking.
Firstly, I don't know why some people think you are "trash-talking" her. I don't see that at all. Can't someone start a thread & ask a few questions about someone? Sheesh!
Anyway, doesn't sound like anyone you'd want to be friends w/ nowadays anyway. Sure, she's
rich & successful, but, she seems like a pretentious, fake, smug b!tC#...I'm sure quite narcissistic too. Who cares if she blocks you or not. She went off to college, got an oversized head & thinks she's better than you & probably everyone else, except those just like her. Who cares if she purposely sought you out on social media & blocked you. That just shows she wants NO chance whatsoever of ever crossing paths w/ you. She's made that clear. Again, who cares, so be it.
And I wish that one day, you actually run into her somewhere. If I were you, I'd make it SO obvious that I was totally ignoring her. Have your head held high, glance her right in the eye, but turn your head & don't even utter one word to her. Who the F does she think she is?!
I’m not pursuing it anymore but to block me and her sister on friend me? It wasn’t like I did anything or stalked her. I asked one friend and her sister for her email address. Wrote her and got brushed off. That was it.
OP, you cannot argue this away. It is what it is. You might never know the answer why this person wants no contact with you. It could have been something you did or said, that she never has forgiven. Or it could simply be that she views herself as a different person. The fact that her sister has also cut ties also tells me that you are simply not wanted among their friends.
I know this is hurts. Perhaps you wish for a second chance at friendship, or perhaps what stings is not knowing.
But I have a feeling that deep down you do have an inkling of why this former friend is no longer your friend.
Her rejection of you does not mean that you are less valuable or a worse person than she is. But it does mean that this old friendship is broken, and will not likely ever be restored. For your own peace of mind, try to find acceptance. Some things cannot be mended.
So you are into nasty gossip? Maybe she was very smart to block you after all.
It’s unbelievable to me how mean and self righteous some people are. So you’ve never been so hurt by someone that you said a few unflattering words about them? I didn’t even do this in real life. Only repeated what I was told by someone and it was only here an anonymous message board. So she should have blocked me because I said one time here that I was told she looks fake now? So I suppose you’ve never EVER said anything about anyone or listen to gossip ever? I’m not a bad person. Just hurt and confused. I’ve never gone onto any post and given any rude feedback. I just stick to the topic. Funny how some of you can come on here and bash me but then call me out. Nobody knows each other. Just wanting opinions and discussion.
OP for your own sake, just let this go. You will probably never know why she blocked you but so what? You're both grown and you have different lives, and that's OK. Maybe she's weird, maybe you're weird, maybe you're both weird, but so what? You're also both grown, with your own families and lives and social circles. Let it go.
OP, it appears that you posted this thread looking for people to share in your outrage. When you didn't get the response you were expecting, you upped the ante with the fake boobs, too skinny, Stepford Wife post. Instead of hearing the majority opinion that you're being ridiculous and need to let go of this obsession with this woman, you're now calling everyone meeeean.
She doesn't want to be friends with you. Judging by your insistence in this thread, it seems justified. You friended her sister, you've been asking others about her ... all this has apparently gotten back to her and she is probably creeped out by your need to know about her.
When I discuss my own experiences with blocking people, I am trying to help you understand why this person may have blocked you. So I feel it's very relevant to talk about why I have blocked others. It might give some clues or understanding about why you have been blocked. Since you have come here wanting to know why. Deep hurt, toxic behavior, being intrusive etc. any of these could be reasons. But since nobody here knows your former friend, all we do is speculate.
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