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Old 06-18-2008, 12:37 AM
 
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No I think you two just outgrew each other. Sometimes it's hard to go back and re-connect with people you knew "so long ago." Even a few years can change a person drastically.
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Old 06-18-2008, 09:33 AM
 
Location: downtown Sarasota
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As you continue to age & mature, you'll realize that if all your friends were smart, good looking and had the same personality, you'd be bored out of your head with them.

I have friends from all walks of life, all totally different some totally peculiar and strange, some so freaking wholesome that you wonder which wonder bread loaf they were unwrapped from....however, my world would not be the same without their friendship....I enjoy them totally and appreciate their lifeforce.

Sometimes the more you resist, the more you become what you resist.
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Old 06-18-2008, 11:30 AM
 
Location: Whiteville Tennessee
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You're in your thirties, you say? Something tells me you know the answer to your question and you're looking for absolution from strangers.

Move on.
And there you have it in a nutshell!
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Old 06-18-2008, 07:49 PM
 
Location: Dallas TX
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I think you should talk on the phone. Writing to someone online can be taken in so many ways. You may be trying to be sarcastic, but she reads it as serious. When you were talking about getting bigger, she may have taken it completely wrong.

If this was a face to face interaction, it would be entirely different. But IMO when you are online; you have to realize not everyone will understand your intentions.
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Old 06-19-2008, 12:25 AM
 
Location: AR
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I think I should answer this thread in a different way since the first time didn't get through. This seems more appropriate considering the subject matter:

LYKE, OMG, U NEED SUM NEW FRIENDZ. IF DEY DONT BE GOOD 2 U, U SHULDNT HAVE 2 PUT ^ WIT THEIR CRAP. UR LIKE IN UR 30S, THATS REAL-E OLD. COLLEGE WUZ KEWL BUT UR LIKE A WOMAN AND STUFF NOW. OMG U SHULD HAVE SUM KEWLER FRIENDZ--HANG WIT ME AND MY FRIENDZ KEGGER THIS FRIDAY SIGMA PHI ALPHA GAMMA RAY KAPPA DUMMA ASSA!
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Old 06-19-2008, 08:11 AM
 
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undertheironsea: cool. are u member of the frat dumma assa?? i actually was shaking my head on the shallowness of the OP.. so i was more dumbfounded to know he is a guy in his 30s. and talking like a valley girl with a pimply adolescent tone with a high school drama problem. my goodness. talk about ironic, don't u think? ...

it's like raaaaiiinnnnn...... oops sorry having an alanis morisette moment
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Old 06-19-2008, 02:37 PM
 
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lol....my personality has been the same. I have more confidence these days and I'm smarter that is the only difference for me.

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Even a few years can change a person drastically.
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Old 10-03-2014, 11:18 PM
 
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Our mind is so complicated, that one day we are happy and the next we are not. Things are not always the way we see them or expect them to be. Breath deeply and try to think why the things are that way. Life is so short to waste it in letting some people to spoil the best of us.
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