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Old 09-20-2008, 03:07 PM
 
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because it is anti-social and rude....I think that is pretty clear and she is making a point of that.



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Why is it rude? She chooses not to acknowledge you - why not just simply ignore her too and get on with your life, instead of poisoning yourself by worrying about her?

If I choose to ignore someone, I feel sorry for them if they constantly try to work their way into my life...
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Old 09-20-2008, 03:11 PM
 
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Why is it rude? She chooses not to acknowledge you - why not just simply ignore her too and get on with your life, instead of poisoning yourself by worrying about her?

If I choose to ignore someone, I feel sorry for them if they constantly try to work their way into my life...
I asked if someone else knew someone like this because I would love to know what the heck is wrong with this woman. She is causing me no harm but I think she is terribly rude...that's it.
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Old 09-20-2008, 03:15 PM
 
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Agree with you. Some people on here are defending her for some reason.

I have met several people like her in my own life.


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Lola, you are so sweet, but this woman is just smarmy. She will remember someone if she needs something but other than that, she is rude! I have never met anyone like her in my life.
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Old 09-20-2008, 03:18 PM
 
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Agree with you. Some people on here are defending her for some reason. I have met several people like her in my own life.
Well, I have knowledge on my side...I KNOW her and KNOW she isn't right in her head

She is just a strange bird. After thinking about it I believe she is an opportunist. She pays attention to people when she thinks they can help her in some way. Oh well, she is still rude.
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Old 09-20-2008, 04:55 PM
 
Location: Wu Dang Mountain
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because it is anti-social and rude....I think that is pretty clear and she is making a point of that.
But she's asking why she's rude - that's like asking why is the sky blue. Sure, you could go all scientific and analytical and create hypothesis and test them and form theories...

...but she'll still be rude.

So why waste energy, time and emotion on trying to figure out WHY? Just accept it, and make plans accordingly.
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Old 09-20-2008, 04:58 PM
 
Location: Wu Dang Mountain
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Well, I have knowledge on my side...I KNOW her and KNOW she isn't right in her head
So...maybe that's why she's rude.
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Old 09-20-2008, 04:59 PM
 
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So...maybe that's why she's rude.
Maybe you are right...I will just ignore her and let her fester in her insanity
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Old 09-20-2008, 05:29 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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and KNOW she isn't right in her head
Since when don't you like our type, Polly...?!
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Old 09-20-2008, 05:30 PM
 
Location: southern california
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maem you take this as rude and abnormal. i wana move to VA today.
here that is normal behavior.
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Old 09-20-2008, 05:42 PM
 
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maem you take this as rude and abnormal. i wana move to VA today.
here that is normal behavior.
Maybe you are on to something...That behavior is not normal here at all. Maybe that is why I am shocked by it.

Too bad you can't get paid for this
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