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Old 10-19-2008, 02:51 PM
 
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This is somewhat awkward. She was supposed to come over today at noon and did not, nor did she call me. Now, I don't really care all that much, but I do find it rude. Now I have to work with her. Needless to say, I will not be issuing another invite. What would you do? Me? I think I'll just not say anything.
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Old 10-19-2008, 02:53 PM
 
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No big deal. Maybe she forgot. Maybe she forgot your number. Maybe there was an emergency...things happen. Don't let it bother you.
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Old 10-19-2008, 03:00 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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I wouldn't be too happy with somebody wasting my day, either. Well, I suppose the issue will come up tomorrow. If the explanation makes some sense, I'd understand; if not, I'll let it slide, but no more chumminess and invites will follow.
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Old 10-19-2008, 03:09 PM
 
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I bet it felt good!
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Old 10-19-2008, 03:11 PM
 
Location: southern california
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lots of flakes in the office. a stand up means the conversations that you had with her were rip off.
be pleasant but dont go there anymore.
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Old 10-19-2008, 03:12 PM
 
Location: Texas
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Yeah. Give 'em one chance. If it was something flakey, write 'em off. But at least hear the explanation. Could have been serious. Did you call her?
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Old 10-19-2008, 03:14 PM
 
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Well, she called me two hours later to say she had not forgotten but her housework is getting out of control. How lame. I set my alarm this morning to wake up and clean. She could have called me. I told her I'd call her back, but I won't. I just don't have time for this kind of stuff.
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Old 10-19-2008, 03:16 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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Well, she called me two hours lalter to say she had not forgotten but her housework is getting out of control. How lame. I set my alarm this morning to wake up and clean. She could have called me. I told her I'd call her back, but I won't. I just don't have time for this kind of stuff.
In this case I say "screw her"!
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Old 10-19-2008, 03:18 PM
 
Location: Avondale, Chicago
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Don't date coworkers. Anything that goes bad can get carried over into work and that's never pretty.
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Old 10-19-2008, 03:18 PM
 
Location: Texas
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Yeah, screw her. I tried for years to be friends with a flakey person like that. Nothing but aggravation.
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