Missing my mom who is faaaaaaaaaaar away (husband, insecure)

[Rakhi]

I have relocated to a different country after getting married leaving behind literally all my family, friends, job and everything familiar.
Since I am very attached to my mom, sometimes(not often) I end up crying looking at the family album. I dont know why, my husband just doesnt like it when I say I miss my parents. He says things like, "go back if you miss them so much".
I know that I love my parents as much as I love my husband (my husband loves me too). What should I do to make him understand that its "OK" to miss someone dear to your heart and cry? Is he feeling in-secure?

[sierraAZ]

Originally Posted by Rakhi

He says things like, "go back if you miss them so much".

Does this mean "go back to visit" or "go back and leave the marriage"?

[Rakhi]

Go back for good.

[mrstewart]

Well, is that something that you have thought about? Leaving, I mean...

[Mr.Cat]

My mom is in my native country and I kind of miss her too.

[Rakhi]

No. I dont want to leave my husband. I love him. I knew that I would be 1000's of miles away after getting married, but I didnt realise that its THIS difficult to be away from all of them.

I am not sure, do women often cry if they miss someone terribly? If yes, how should I make him understand? why is he getting upset about this?

And relocating back to home along with husband is not an option for us right now. We have too many commitments here.

[sierraAZ]

Originally Posted by Rakhi

Go back for good.

Well, I'm sorry, but he doesn't sound like a loving husband to me.

[Rakhi]

No Sierra, he is a real sweetheart.

[sierraAZ]

Originally Posted by Rakhi

No Sierra, he is a real sweetheart.

Whatever you say... No sweetheart will suggest for you to go packing for good every time you mention missing your family in my book.

What's your reason for posting then?

[Rakhi]

Originally Posted by sierraAZ

What's your reason for posting then?

I was wondering if he is feeling insecure or something.