Verbally abusive sister (boyfriend, brother, grandma, house) - Issues with friends, family, co-workers, acquaintances - City-Data Forum

Davids_Babygirl · 01-15-2009, 05:15 PM

Ok. Where to start?
I'm 15 and I have a 23 year old sister. We live at my grandparents. Her and my brother have lived here since they were born and I've lived here for almost 8 years. Well, For the past I'd say 5 years my sister sister has gotten
verbally abuse to me, my grandma, and my grandad. Mainly to me and grandma. It got really bad about 2 years ago for me and I will admit it I thought about suicide and I started cutting a bit. Well, I stopped cause last
year I met my boyfriend online and he made me promise to never do it again.
And I haven't. If it wasn't for him I don't know what I would do.
Well, Lately my sister has gotten worse. She's always pissed off. She calls me
a dumbass, lazy ass, b*tch, wh***, and always threatens that she's gonna kill
me. She's been threatening to kill me for a few years now. And she's always
bitching at my grandma, she calls her a b*tch, a stupid b****, lazy(she's 65 and has neck and back problems) my sister also said the other day that she wished my grandma had died last year on the operating table when she had a heart attack when she was having surgery. I don't know what to do anymore. My mom knows all about it. But she won't do anything. The reason I don't live with her and my dad anymore is cause 7 years ago they
were working a lot and I couldn't stay on my own. So my grandma before she got really sick started taking care of me. Well, Ever since I moved in my sister has hated it. She says this her house not mine. I was happy after I met my boyfriend, He still makes me happy don't get me wrong, But My sister never stops anymore. She has to be in control of everything.
I don't know what to do anymore.. I've been thinking whether or not to ask
my mom if I can come home more, or get emancipated cause my mom really
won't do anything, or ask her if I can move up to Georgia with my boyfriend
and his mom... Any advise would be much appreciated. Thank you.

Degenerate · 01-15-2009, 05:19 PM

Soldier of Fortune magazine comes to mind ...

Davids_Babygirl · 01-15-2009, 05:30 PM

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Originally Posted by Degenerate

Soldier of Fortune magazine comes to mind ...

what's that?

nitokenshi · 01-15-2009, 06:46 PM

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Originally Posted by Davids_Babygirl

Any advise would be much appreciated. Thank you.

punch her in the ovaries and stop dating 30 year old rapists

Davids_Babygirl · 01-15-2009, 07:01 PM

i'm not dating a 30 year old rapist. I'm friends with his mom.

mrstewart · 01-15-2009, 07:05 PM

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Originally Posted by Davids_Babygirl

I can move up to Georgia with my boyfriend
and his mom....

OK, here you say he is your boyfriend but in a previous post you said you are friends with his mother...

Davids_Babygirl · 01-15-2009, 07:06 PM

Yeah.. I never denied he wasn't my boyfriend. I just said I'm friends with his mother so I know he's not 30 years old and a rapist that's all. I didn't ask for help about him I asked for help about my sister.

mrstewart · 01-15-2009, 07:09 PM

If you are that concerned about your sister, call the police and social services. Report her abuse and threats to the police and call social services to report her for elder abuse...

Just make sure your "boyfriend" isn't around when the police come...wouldn't want him dragged away for being a pedophile!

Davids_Babygirl · 01-15-2009, 07:11 PM

How do you guys know how old he is, anyways? He wouldn't be around. He lives in GA and I live in FL.

nitokenshi · 01-15-2009, 07:14 PM

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Originally Posted by Davids_Babygirl

I met my boyfriend online .

Good clue he is a pedophile