Help with family moving issues please
If anyone can help... My older sister lives in Toronto and she's pretty settled in now. My brother lives in Calgary and is also settled in. Now, I'm the youngest/last child, at 18 years of age, living with our single mother. I love her so much, am very attached and that's where this dilemma sprouts from.
I'm waiting for acceptance to transfer (it's likely that I'll get in) to be in a program that really appeals to me, in Toronto. Thing is, my mother recently bought a nice house in a nice area, and after a bunch of job-jumping, she's finally settled down to a great job. This job could transfer, but I guess it's hard. Anyhow, I know she doesn't want to leave for Toronto, and she keeps saying "What's in it for me?".
I don't want to leave her, because she is single. I know that she won't come, but I want to go. !!
I don't know if I'm being selfish or what... Help!